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Old 05-03-2003, 06:23 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default A poem on early miscarriage...

Just Those Few Weeks

For those few weeks-
I had you to myself.
And that seems too short of time
To be changed so profoundly.

In those few weeks-
I came to know you...
And to love you.
You came to trust me with your life.
Oh, what a life I had planned for you!

Just those few weeks-
When I lost you,
I lost a lifetime of hopes,
plans, dreams, and aspirations...
A slice of my future simply vanished overnight.

Just those few weeks-
It wasn't enough time to convince others
How special and important you were.
How odd, a truly unique person has recently died
And no one is mourning the passing.

Just a mere few weeks-
And no "normal" person would cry all night
Over a tiny, unfinished baby,
Or get depressed and withdraw day after endless day.
No one would, so why am I?

You were just those few weeks my little one
You darted in and out of my life too quickly.
But it seems that's all the time you needed
To make my life so much richer-
And give me a small glimpse of eternity.

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Old 05-03-2003, 10:35 PM   #2 (permalink)
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.....that is so beautiful and speaks the truth of the hearts of many women here.
Thanks for sharing that Sugarbug.

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Old 05-04-2003, 02:50 PM   #3 (permalink)
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That was a great poem. It totally expressing how I felt about my mc.
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Thanks for sharing. I have not seen this one before. Take care.
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you're making me cry, sugarbug. what a nice poem... it really says just how i feel.
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oh, that mad me cry. brings back my memories of how i felt when i lost my babies. thanks for sharing it sugarbug.
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