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Old 12-19-2005, 06:05 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Thumbs up Poem - Knowbody Knew You

I could really relate to this poem during my miscarriage - I don't remember where I found it, but I thought others would appreciate it too.

This is in memory of my baby Terri:


Nobody Knew You

Nobody knew you
"Sorry about this miscarriage dear,
but you couldn't have been very far along."
...existed.

Nobody knew you
"It's not as though you lost an
actual PERSON."
...were real.

Nobody knew you
"Well it probably wasn't a viable fetus.
It's all for the best."
...were perfect.

Nobody knew you
"You can always have another!"
...were unique.

Nobody knew you
"You already have a beautiful child
Be HAPPY!"
...were loved for yourself.

Nobody knew
...but us.

And we will always remember
...You.

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Old 12-19-2005, 11:20 PM   #2 (permalink)
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thanks for sharing... i feel every word!
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Old 12-19-2005, 11:30 PM   #3 (permalink)
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So very true

*sigh*

Thanks for posting this...
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That's so true! Thank you for sharing it.

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Old 12-20-2005, 07:47 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Thanks for sharing that... I'm doing my best not to start bawling since my boss is just in the next room. I'm going to have to print that out, take it home, and have a good cry there.

What a beautiful poem, and so very, very true.
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Thank You for sharing that. I felt those emotions also.
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its perfect, i printed it out to laminate, taking it to Caitlin, thank you
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I'm in tears. I really understand that poem. I've been through that exactly.
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