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Old 04-17-2008, 03:22 PM   #31 (permalink)
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I don't know if this has been shared yet, but I thought it was perfect!!

by Watermark
Glory baby you slipped away as fast as we could say baby…baby..
You were growing, what happened dear?
You disappeared on us baby…baby..
Heaven will hold you before we do
Heaven will keep you safe until we’re home with you…
Until we’re home with you…

Miss you everyday
Miss you in every way
But we know there’s a
day when we will hold you
We will hold you
You’ll kiss our tears away
When we’re home to stay
Can’t wait for the day when we will see you
We will see you
But baby let sweet Jesus hold you
‘till mom and dad can hold you…
You’ll just have heaven before we do
You’ll just have heaven before we do

Sweet little babies, it’s hard to
understand it ‘cause we’re hurting
We are hurting
But there is healing
And we know we’re stronger people through the growing
And in knowing-
That all things work together for our good
And God works His purposes just like He said He would…
Just like He said He would…

BRIDGE:
I can’t imagine heaven’s lullabies
and what they must sound like
But I will rest in knowing, heaven is your home
And it’s all you’ll ever know…all you’ll ever know…
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BFP 07/22/08!!!!! (unexpected per dh had high fever during o time)

10/22/08 ultrasound at 16wks4days says more than likely a GIRL!!!!


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Old 04-17-2008, 08:49 PM   #32 (permalink)
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Old 04-18-2008, 12:30 AM   #33 (permalink)
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biogal, that was an amazing tribute. You had a beautiful little boy!
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BFP 07/22/08!!!!! (unexpected per dh had high fever during o time)

10/22/08 ultrasound at 16wks4days says more than likely a GIRL!!!!


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Old 05-09-2008, 03:04 PM   #34 (permalink)
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Biogal, your tribute was so beautiful.
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I wrote this today, and I don't know if it's very good or not, but I liked it so I wanted to share it with you ladies.

In my heart


I never met you in the flesh
but you were always there in my heart
I felt your little flutter-bye winged caresses
as the nurse told me that unfortunately
we had lost you.

But you were never lost
you were where you belonged all along
in my heart
and I hugged myself believing that one day
you'd come back to me
even though I knew it'd be the other way around

And I imagined a field of daisies
washing away the pain of infertility
and seeds growing up
as flowers obscured the pain
of pregnancy loss

I dreamed of you tonight
curled in oblivion
playing with your hair as you slept
as the light kissed you as
I wished I could

Softly crying through each night
I think of you
and what should have been
and what couldn't be.
Sleep on angel,
sleep on treasure,
until I can meet you
again some day.

-SLHoward
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Old 05-09-2008, 09:25 PM   #36 (permalink)
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Amanda & Anotherdreamer, thank you for the compliments!

Anotherdreamer, I am so very sorry for your loss. Your poem is absolutely beautiful! ((HUGS))
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Thanks Biogal
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Niki- Thanking for sharing your son with us. What a great tribute to him.
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As you can see from my sig, I have not experienced the loss of my own child. But in July 2007 I was visiting my sister and accompanied her to a routine midwife check up at 17 weeks. There we discovered her son had died. I stayed with her family for 7 days to help. Upon delivering their baby, who they chose to name Star, it was discovered that he had died due to his umbilical cord being twice around his neck. Next month, 14th July, will be his first 'birthday'. Some words I found which seemed to help my sister slightly were;


Grief cannot be dry-cleaned, it must be washed with tears.


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i just wanted to thank all of you for your poems. We lost our little girl at 17 weeks due to IC and preterm labor. We lost her on 08-08-08
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