Has anyone experienced being pg and not having it show up on hpt? last month, I was experiencing all the sypmtoms of pg and took a test it was neg. but still felt funny then started to bleed.
So on day 2 started clomid, on days 4-5 on clomid, I started to cramp really heavily and passed some clots, started at night, went to work in the morning and then felt awful cramping, had to go to the bathroom and had the urge to push. I felt something come out of me that droped quickly to the bottom of the toilet, I gathered it from the toilet to see what it was and it was a clot that was very dark in color, I have had plenty of clots with pcos, this one was very dark and fiberous or so it seemes. I immediatley got a sick felling in my stomach and just cried. I was wondering if this could have been a mc? I am scared to think that I could've killed my baby, but I am not sure. This happened a month ago and now I am on my period for this month and feel okay. But I still get sick to think I may have mc and not even know it. I just assumed when I started to bleed it was my period. If anyone knows if this is possible or if this has happened to them please let me know? I am afraid to go to the dr because I am afraid of what it may have been and if it was a mc, I am scared and sad that I caused myself to lose a possible
pregnancy....jenlove I apologize for the graphic description of this post, but I am going crazy and need to know.
This happened to me last month. I was 5 days late and took a HPT which came up negative. A few days later I finally called my doctor, and they told me to come in for a blood test. My HCG came back at 7, and they said I was pregnant. They had me re-test two days later and it came back at 6, and that there was no hope for this pregnancy. I started cramping and bleeding really heavily two days later. The doctor said it was a chemical pregnancy. After it happened, my friend and I were commenting on how often this must happen to other women. If I hadn't gone for the blood work, I would have never known I was pregnant, since the HPT didn't pick up on the HCG, since it was so low. The same thing must have happened to you.
__________________ Age 36, DH 35
1st IVF Twin girls lost due to incompetent cervix at 21 weeks on 4-21-03.
9-1-03 Miscarriage
2nd IVF 4-04 Successful, It's a boy!
FET 11-28-05 - BFP! It's a girl!
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My gut feeling is that this is not the first time that I have miscarried. In some aspects it makes me hopeful because I know pregnancy may be possible, but on the other hand I just want to crawl into a hole and weep.....It is hard to find the happy medium from these two very different schools of thought.
Well I found out today that a women that I work with is pg. she did not really want to because she just had a son less than a year ago. I want to be happy for her but I am saddened esp. since her name is Jennifer also and also because on Friday of last week found out another Jennifer I work with is also pg.....on top of it all, today we started planning a baby shower for a good friend from work who is 6 months along.....sorry to get away from the subject at hand, but it is really hard sometimes, as I am sure you probably understand....take care and thanks for the response, jenlove
Jenlove--It sounds like you are going through a really hard time right now, but remember there is nothing you did or could have done to change or prevent what happened if it was a miscarriage. Like the nurse told me, it just depends on what is growing (or sometimes not growing). Even though it is hard to accept, that early on, nothing could have changed what happened.
I hope you can find the balance between the two extremes...when you do, could you pass on the secret
Ber
Possible miscarriage 
