Rage

lilithann · 11-19-2003, 10:35 AM

Okay, right now I want to kill my DH. He is getting on my nerves. He is constantly telling me how to drive (turn here, watch out for that guy, where are you going, blah blah blah), how to do my job better, how to pay the bills, how to manage my day better, blah blah blah. I have tried so many approaches. Trying his "suggestions", telling him politely to stop, ignoring him, yelling at him, and finally telling him that it is my life and butt out.

Okay, I need to breathe......1.....2.....3....4...5...

Alrighty, now he doesn't want me to take on this part time job that could be very nice. I have to pay $200 for a license. It is refundable. I am supposed to sign the papers this weekend. He told me to try it part time. Now on the week I need to sign he wants me to back out! What the hell! I am so ticked off right now.

AAHHHH!

Okay breathe.....

I will survive! Thanks for letting me vent.

Lilith Ann

daculadawg1 · 11-19-2003, 12:08 PM

your dh sounds like mine sometimes. he can be a real pain in the butt. i hope you and him can come to some understanding, have ya tried cousling(sp?)?
let me know if i can help.
linda mull

jamim · 11-19-2003, 06:53 PM

Yes, my DH - just last night, tried to tell me how to cook...
me - who has been cooking since she was 9. So, we each have jobs to do - he balances the checkbook....I sort the mail, little things.....and neither one of us is suppose to tell the other how to do his/her job. I do have to remind him of that every once in awhile.
Just say to him that it is something that you really want to do and you would appreciate his support on it. Or, if he is too much of a pain - just say "this is what I am going to do, I would appreciate your support, but even if I don't have it, I am going through with this"

lilithann · 11-20-2003, 10:31 AM

Well, I have talked it over with my family and I have decided not to do it. Reason, right now we could use the $200.00. Our cat is really sick and not doing very well. Hopefully he will come through.

I will survive!

Lilith Ann