Okay, just needed to vent to people who understand. Just found out that my friend had an "oops" and is 13 wks pregnant and is planning a wedding now for Dec. I want to be excited for her. I have had 2 m/cs in the past year and a half AND if I hadn't had the last I would be 20 wks right now. What frustrates me even more is that it took her 13 wks to tell me, I know I have talked to her since she found out and she didn't tell me To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. I know she was probably trying to protect me as I had a miscarriage one week before she found out at 11 wks, but we WERE pretty close. I just was to curl up and cry for a week. She doesn't even seem excited.
I get so excited for all of you and I even was a little excited for her all though my heart sank for myself when she told me. But then when she doesn't even seem excited. WHY does it always happen that everyone else close to us seem to be getting pregnant???
Thanks for your thoughts. I know we all go through this at one time or another with all our struggles, just needed to let off some steam to others who would understand.
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Conceived 1st round of Clomid 10/08
Miscarriage 12/08
5 more rounds of Clomid - BFN
Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, and HSG scheduled for Dec 28!
TTC on our own after lap. Will not do any fertility meds beyond Clomid.
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Sorry to hear, I understand how you feel. Do you think your friend didnt tell you right away because she knew you have been TTC and had the M/c? Maybe she isnt acting excited around you also for that reason - maybe she doesnt want to hurt you.
My friend just had an "oops" as well and is 12 weeks along. She didnt have sex with her husband for 3 months (a whole 'nother story) and gets pregnant. She even got up to pee afterwards and pushed out all the semen, but still got preggers. Here we are, trying to at least ovulate and use Preseed and God knows what else to get pregnant.
So, essentially, I feel your pain.
__________________ 27 years old
Married July 2004
TTC #1 since 10/09
Diagnosed with PCOS January 2007
Annovulatory, no insulin resistance, thin, elevated testosterone
5'3", 110#
Meds: Prenatals, Yasmin until 10/09
HSG: Tubes open
SA: excellent
10/09: Clomid 50mg CD 5-9, no O
11/09: Clomid 100mg CD 5-9
I know how you feel. It just seems unfair. When my bestfriend told me she was pg. She didn't even do it.Her deatbeat boyfriend. She knows what I have went through and didn't seem very happy eighter.But I think it was being she was just trying to protect me and my feelings. Maybe thats what she is doing. Hope that you start to feel better about the sitition.
__________________ Me(28)Dh(42)
Three daughters age 10,11,12 years old by DH and I have one son who's 9 years old.No kids together yet. Two angel babies..
I know what you mean..I always fell as if someone else gets pregnant around me it take away from the chance I will..I know it sounds silly but that is how I fell at times..
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