Sugawallz910

Since I have never had a m/c before, I do have a question. Sunday I was having bad cramp like contractions with alot of bleeding and alot of clots. Since Monday the bleeding has gone to medium bleeding with no pain. today around noon I started getting regular AF like cramps, not bad at all. i wonder if this is just regular AF bleeding now? I still dont get my HCG levels checked until Friday so I dont know what my levels are. I can only go by last thursday when they were 732 any advice would be nice.

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VivC

Suga, I'm thinking it's still M/C, since it's so soon since your little one left.

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Sugawallz910

It's so scarey and sad knowing that everytime i go to the bathroom i could be passing my baby. Seems like its pretty hard to know when i pass or passed my baby at such an early stage in my pregnancy.

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Sugawallz910

im sorry it seems like i take 1 step forward and 2 steps back, Im just worried that i will be bleeding longer than most women.

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My heart's breaking for you right now. Why do you think you'll bleed more than most women? Are you worried because the bleeding is a constant reminder? Or for physical reasons?

Be gentle with yourself - you just got knocked on your ass by the worst thing that could ever happen to a woman. You sound like me - my therapist keeps telling me that I can't rush the grieving process. You'll bleed as long as you need to bleed, but I hope that it won't take that long.

It's been six months since Rivi died, and I still sometimes feel like I'm taking FOUR steps back for every one forward. But I'm finally starting to have some good moments. You will, too. I promise that one day it won't be as hard. Just hold on until then.

Have you talked to your BF?

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Sugawallz910

Thank You
We have talked but its not he really cant feel my pain because (he is a man ) but he is trying to be there for me.and I love him for that.
Im just worried because some women have said they bleed for 12 days and i think i might be longer than that

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((((Suga))))
Please just give your body time to do what it needs to do. It's only been 6 days right? I read somewhere that you can bleed for weeks. With my 2nd m/c it took about 2 wks. Then when AF came she stayed for about 2 wks. Everybody is different. I also had really bad afterpains with both m/c. With the 2nd one my DH was about to call an ambulance.
Be kind to yourself, you need to heal and you can't rush healing.

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Sugawallz910

thanks everybody for your kind words

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It's too soon to be AF already so it's still from the m/c. With each of my m/c's I bled for weeks. With my D&C, I bled for months. There really is no "norm" with a m/c, every woman goes through something different w/ their m/c and believe me, every m/c is different even w/ the same woman. I'm so sorry {{{{HUGS}}}}

I know how it is to deal w/ DH when going through m/c. I can now understand where he was at. He didn't know what to do to help so it seemed to me like he didn't care but now I know that he cared very much, he just didn't know what to do or how to react.

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