Well I don't think it's one of those things that needs to be brought up unless you are getting serious, unless you are just really open about it and feel like he needs to know right off the bat... I was with my husband for about a year or so then when it started getting serious I started kinda mentioning little things here and there, then when we were talking about marriage I started dropping more topics of discussion. I mean, it can affect fertility, so if you have a fling, or not in a serious or semi-serious relationship...then whats the point?? I guess I was afraid if I mentioned it too soon it would scare him off, so I waited till I thought he was a keeper, than I thought it was right to share that about myself. To me it is a private thing though...
Really...it's when ever you are comfortable and you feel the time is right!! GOOD LUCK!
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I never did at first until things got serious. He was fine about it and jokes around with me sometimes. Like when my nephew was born he told me how he wants kids and I just told him if we ever got married that I may not be able to....he just laughed and told me that we could adopt a little Chinese baby girl. He suppourts me and the odd time I tell him about it when I'm having one of those days that I feel so down and ugly. He listens to me always. He loves me for me regardless of my PCOS. I don't really feel the need to talk to him about it unless it comes up somehow.
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I think it's important for your bf/so to know what's going on with you. My bf has been nothing but supportive and we do talk about it. Not all the time...but when I'm feeling like crap or he knows that it's bothering me he tries to support me in any way possible. The key to talking about it is feeling comfortable.... It took me a while to feel completely comfortable with it...but it's not an issue. Our bf's love us for who we are...not our medical conditions.
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thanks for your replys guys!
I’ve gotten really close to someone lately! And it could possibly turn into a serious relationship.
And I’d like him to know about it so I can explain my mood swings, anxiety and my low self confidence among other things. but at the same time I don’t want to say anything because I’m afraid after I do things will get weird and the fact that pcos is such a relationship barrier (for me) im scared to let it down kinda thing! Ah I don’t know I’m just rambling now!
Hi, I just wanted to say that although im not in a relationship I have a really really close childhood friend and hes a guy. Ive only just told him about my PCOS, four years after I was diagnosed. Do you know what he said? "Why did you wait so long?" Hes been an absoloute rock since then, supportive and much more sensetive then he was around me before. I dont know if that was relevant or not but if you feel like you should share it with him then something inside is probably telling you too. Good Luck x x
If you feel the need to tell him then tell him. Hard part when you do tell him is when and trying to bring it up. Do what you feel you need to do you're an awesome friend and I know you will make the right choice to your needs. Good luck and update us.
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thanks again! (i cant say enough thanks to you guys!)
i think i will tell him, its scary how things are moveing so fast! i really cant belive it!
as you say leany the problem now when to tell him and how!
i think i might just leave it for now, unless i find the right time!
....ah this sucks lol
I want to let you know, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months, but we are relaly serious, and are going to get married after we graduate college. We both have always dreamed of becoming parents, so I let him know that I was going for testing and that there was a possibility that I may not be able to have kids. Then I was diagnosed yesterday with PCOS, and he is supportive the whole way. I can bring it up and he is there to listen. I do get really upset around my niece who is 19 months old, my nephew who is 3 months old, and I have another neice coming any day now. Because I want a child but know I may not be able to. It does hurt inside, but if you have a supportive person even your boyfriend if you will be with him through all of this, can get to know what you have and hopefully be supportive! hope this helps.
i havent found the right time, school (where we see each other 4 days of a week) just doesnt seem right!
ahh today wasent a good day, someone please tell me i'm not the only one that feels this way!
i just feel worthless at the moment, so insecure of where this relationship is going! it scares me, we have been friends for a while and it wasent until we got together that i let down some on my gaurds and im not likeing it, i feel so Vulnerable to being hurt!
im scared its not what he expected, or hes gonna get bored! i;ve never been in a relatioship like this before, so its unfamilure teritory!
maybe im just hornomal at the moment for some strange reason, but i needed to get that off my chest!
thanks, oh and btw i've told him!
i had to get a blood test done friday and i asked him to come with me, so i was able to explain why im goin for one, he's cool with it all!...thank god!
i feel so much better now
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