~*Relaxing Doesn't Make Babies! *~ May Edition ~* Everyone Welcome! ~* - Page 4

rees&dan · 05-01-2008, 08:25 PM

Hello Cathy

I don't talk about TTC with my in-laws anymore.....they just upset me

cachcoco · 05-01-2008, 08:29 PM

Unfortunatly, I dont bring it up they do. Everytime I get a little upset or anxious about something it gets brought up! I have tried to explain about PCOS but they dont get it! And fil believes I could do if I put my mind to it..... so makes me want to scream!
We just moved six months ago and I am not used to people being that far in my comfort zone.... they are involved with everything! They are great people but so dont get it!

miria · 05-01-2008, 08:42 PM

Cathy welcome! i'm sorry that you're in-laws don't understand! i hear the same words from all of my friends, hang in there!

cachcoco · 05-01-2008, 08:45 PM

Thanks Miria. I have been allowing it to get to me but I am trying to just let it go! They dont mean to hurt my feelings or be ignorant, they really are in a strange way trying to help!

Safyre · 05-01-2008, 08:48 PM

Carrie- Thats hilarious!! I told my husband and he laughed..... then re-itterated that he's still scared. lol

Cathy - Welcome! I would honestly tell your in laws that you are working on it, and not talk about it any further. Really, if they are going to be negative about it, its not worth the discussion, because they only add to the stress.

Fertility friend says today is my most fertile day yet! hope to see a temp spike tomorrow! We bd'd most of the last week, only missing two days (not in a row)

miria · 05-01-2008, 08:54 PM

Cathy yeah i know! and the worse part is that you can't even stop them! they'll think you're rude,ohh! it happened to me with my own mother LOL

Safyre yaaaaaay!!! go hunt it girlie!!!! wishing you tons of baby dust!

cachcoco · 05-01-2008, 09:36 PM

But I got over worrying about being rude a long time ago! I just tell them no! and give it back. As for the relaxing part and the inlaws... I try very hard for it not to come up at all! But it always does and Dh is really great about changing the subject! It just sucks that people dont think about what they say nd how it effects others... like somewhere deep inside I dont feel guilty enough for not being able to get pregnant! Anyways....

Go safyre!

DCBailey · 05-01-2008, 10:52 PM

haha sorry girls i should have warned you hehee
Nope I didnt use the watch but im basing my OPK testing on what the watch predicted last month. I didnt use because I was spotting forever so I didnt want to guess at which day AF started you can only use the watch starting between CD1-3. In total I month of bleeding ugh
Anyway I did another one today still looks the same as yesterday..

I woke DH up last night anyway

Welcome Cathy! I also do not talk about ttc to my in laws..my MIL is a witch anyway i dont want to hear it. she is soo mean!
Its funny because my cousin told me to relax and get freaky lol people just dont get it.

Safyre- YAY! Im soo excited for you! I only temped for like 3 days this cycle and gave up. Temperatures in my room have been waky with this weather and mine were too way off.

miria · 05-02-2008, 07:58 AM

OMG girls please i need your help!!!

i woke up this morning and POAS!! with the first test a second line appeared in less the 2 min, it was super faint but was definitely there!! i was soo exited, i went to the room and got 2 more tests ,one with the same brand and an other predictor, i peed on them, both BFN's and then i started looking at the first test and the line disappeared!!!!! i'm going nuts, it was there i swear i saw it, it has disappeared and now it's rather white, you can still see it but it's white not pink not grey!!! i dont know what to think!! i was nauseous last night! and i woke up with sensitive nipples, i'm not having any cramps or whatsoever that indicates that AF is on the way+ my cervix is high,soft and closed.!! i'm going nuts please help!!! i'm 8DPO.

cachcoco · 05-02-2008, 08:02 AM

miria I am sorry I wont be much help.... I dont exactly know what day you are to start poas... But I would wait a few days and do it agan with first morning pee. So sorry you are freaked out!

miria · 05-02-2008, 08:10 AM

cachcoco thank you!

cachcoco · 05-02-2008, 08:17 AM

You are welcolme! I just wish I could give you better info but I just dont know, but I think its really early so try..... I am not going to say relax!!! But try to just breath and test again in a few days.

Safyre · 05-02-2008, 08:23 AM

Miria - its still really early!! the earliest i've been a true bfp is cd 10....

my temp didn't 'jump' this morning.... argh..... damn body better figure things out!! lol

nessak · 05-02-2008, 12:14 PM

Miria~Sorry you are so stressed hon, I agree try again in a few days. BABYDUST*

I took a personal day hoping to get some shopping and cleaning done but I can't seem to get out of the house let alone the bed. AAARRRGGGHH I hate when I am like this! There is tornado warnings out today so I proably shouldn't be out anyways. Have a good weekend ladies.

05-01-2008, 08:25 PM	#46 (permalink)
rees&dan Registered User Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 106 My Mood: Points: 1,116.82 Bank: 585.83 Total Points: 1,702.65 Donate	Hello Cathy I don't talk about TTC with my in-laws anymore.....they just upset me __________________ ME: Rees(31) DH: Dan(31) Cheri - Prediction* -BFP August* Brooke -Prediction -BFP August Jeni -Prediction -conception July-BFP August All three saying BOY Let it happen soon To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

05-01-2008, 08:29 PM	#47 (permalink)
cachcoco cachcoco Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: wyoming Posts: 272 My Mood: Points: 618.96 Bank: 98.52 Total Points: 717.47 Donate	Unfortunatly, I dont bring it up they do. Everytime I get a little upset or anxious about something it gets brought up! I have tried to explain about PCOS but they dont get it! And fil believes I could do if I put my mind to it..... so makes me want to scream! We just moved six months ago and I am not used to people being that far in my comfort zone.... they are involved with everything! They are great people but so dont get it! __________________ Cathy 36 Dh 32 DS1 15 DS2 9 myspace.com/cachcoco To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

05-01-2008, 08:42 PM	#48 (permalink)
miria Registered User Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: London Posts: 958 My Mood: Points: 2,012.27 Bank: 4,530.97 Total Points: 6,543.24 Donate	Cathy welcome! i'm sorry that you're in-laws don't understand! i hear the same words from all of my friends, hang in there! __________________ me 24 To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. DH 35 first ever BFP (28/08/04) DD was born 13/05/05. pcos dx: april 2004 male factor: dx 04 /confirmed 07. ttc#2 (01/08) clomid 50mg > bust!! (02-03/08) on a break (04/08) clomid 100mg > BFP!!(6th of May) To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. 1st BETA (13DPO): 38 , PROG: 62 2nd BETA (20DPO) :?? waiting for the result

05-01-2008, 08:45 PM	#49 (permalink)
cachcoco cachcoco Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: wyoming Posts: 272 My Mood: Points: 618.96 Bank: 98.52 Total Points: 717.47 Donate	Thanks Miria. I have been allowing it to get to me but I am trying to just let it go! They dont mean to hurt my feelings or be ignorant, they really are in a strange way trying to help! __________________ Cathy 36 Dh 32 DS1 15 DS2 9 myspace.com/cachcoco To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

05-01-2008, 08:48 PM	#50 (permalink)
Safyre Kickin for daylight Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Ontario,Canada Posts: 170 My Mood: Points: 8,415.33 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 8,415.33 Donate	Carrie- Thats hilarious!! I told my husband and he laughed..... then re-itterated that he's still scared. lol Cathy - Welcome! I would honestly tell your in laws that you are working on it, and not talk about it any further. Really, if they are going to be negative about it, its not worth the discussion, because they only add to the stress. Fertility friend says today is my most fertile day yet! hope to see a temp spike tomorrow! We bd'd most of the last week, only missing two days (not in a row) __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Me 25 Him 27 Diagnosed PCOS 06/07 Rx Metformin 500 mg/day 5/30/2007 up'd 1000mg/day 09/01/07 up'd 1500 mg/day 11/22/07 HSG Sept 27th, All Clear!!! Hubs SA- Count 32 million, motility 50% First Round of Clomid 02-22 BUST, no O To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

05-01-2008, 08:54 PM	#51 (permalink)
miria Registered User Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: London Posts: 958 My Mood: Points: 2,012.27 Bank: 4,530.97 Total Points: 6,543.24 Donate	Cathy yeah i know! and the worse part is that you can't even stop them! they'll think you're rude,ohh! it happened to me with my own mother LOL Safyre yaaaaaay!!! go hunt it girlie!!!! wishing you tons of baby dust! __________________ me 24 To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. DH 35 first ever BFP (28/08/04) DD was born 13/05/05. pcos dx: april 2004 male factor: dx 04 /confirmed 07. ttc#2 (01/08) clomid 50mg > bust!! (02-03/08) on a break (04/08) clomid 100mg > BFP!!(6th of May) To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. 1st BETA (13DPO): 38 , PROG: 62 2nd BETA (20DPO) :?? waiting for the result

05-01-2008, 09:36 PM	#52 (permalink)
cachcoco cachcoco Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: wyoming Posts: 272 My Mood: Points: 618.96 Bank: 98.52 Total Points: 717.47 Donate	But I got over worrying about being rude a long time ago! I just tell them no! and give it back. As for the relaxing part and the inlaws... I try very hard for it not to come up at all! But it always does and Dh is really great about changing the subject! It just sucks that people dont think about what they say nd how it effects others... like somewhere deep inside I dont feel guilty enough for not being able to get pregnant! Anyways.... Go safyre! __________________ Cathy 36 Dh 32 DS1 15 DS2 9 myspace.com/cachcoco To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

05-01-2008, 10:52 PM	#53 (permalink)
DCBailey testing begins 5/17..... Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 522 My Mood: Points: 2.00 Bank: 13,880.30 Total Points: 13,882.30 Donate	haha sorry girls i should have warned you hehee Nope I didnt use the watch but im basing my OPK testing on what the watch predicted last month. I didnt use because I was spotting forever so I didnt want to guess at which day AF started you can only use the watch starting between CD1-3. In total I month of bleeding ugh Anyway I did another one today still looks the same as yesterday.. I woke DH up last night anyway Welcome Cathy! I also do not talk about ttc to my in laws..my MIL is a witch anyway i dont want to hear it. she is soo mean! Its funny because my cousin told me to relax and get freaky lol people just dont get it. Safyre- YAY! Im soo excited for you! I only temped for like 3 days this cycle and gave up. Temperatures in my room have been waky with this weather and mine were too way off. __________________ Dana(ME 30) & Larry(DH 29) Vitex 1200MG Soy 80mg CD 3-7 To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Cheri- May08 Concieve or EDD Boy Jenni- BFP April/May Girl Due Jan 09 Brooke- Aug/Sept BFP Due Boy To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

05-02-2008, 07:58 AM	#54 (permalink)
miria Registered User Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: London Posts: 958 My Mood: Points: 2,012.27 Bank: 4,530.97 Total Points: 6,543.24 Donate	OMG girls please i need your help!!! i woke up this morning and POAS!! with the first test a second line appeared in less the 2 min, it was super faint but was definitely there!! i was soo exited, i went to the room and got 2 more tests ,one with the same brand and an other predictor, i peed on them, both BFN's and then i started looking at the first test and the line disappeared!!!!! i'm going nuts, it was there i swear i saw it, it has disappeared and now it's rather white, you can still see it but it's white not pink not grey!!! i dont know what to think!! i was nauseous last night! and i woke up with sensitive nipples, i'm not having any cramps or whatsoever that indicates that AF is on the way+ my cervix is high,soft and closed.!! i'm going nuts please help!!! i'm 8DPO. __________________ me 24 To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. DH 35 first ever BFP (28/08/04) DD was born 13/05/05. pcos dx: april 2004 male factor: dx 04 /confirmed 07. ttc#2 (01/08) clomid 50mg > bust!! (02-03/08) on a break (04/08) clomid 100mg > BFP!!(6th of May) To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. 1st BETA (13DPO): 38 , PROG: 62 2nd BETA (20DPO) :?? waiting for the result

05-02-2008, 08:02 AM	#55 (permalink)
cachcoco cachcoco Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: wyoming Posts: 272 My Mood: Points: 618.96 Bank: 98.52 Total Points: 717.47 Donate	miria I am sorry I wont be much help.... I dont exactly know what day you are to start poas... But I would wait a few days and do it agan with first morning pee. So sorry you are freaked out! __________________ Cathy 36 Dh 32 DS1 15 DS2 9 myspace.com/cachcoco To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

05-02-2008, 08:10 AM	#56 (permalink)
miria Registered User Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: London Posts: 958 My Mood: Points: 2,012.27 Bank: 4,530.97 Total Points: 6,543.24 Donate	cachcoco thank you! __________________ me 24 To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. DH 35 first ever BFP (28/08/04) DD was born 13/05/05. pcos dx: april 2004 male factor: dx 04 /confirmed 07. ttc#2 (01/08) clomid 50mg > bust!! (02-03/08) on a break (04/08) clomid 100mg > BFP!!(6th of May) To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. 1st BETA (13DPO): 38 , PROG: 62 2nd BETA (20DPO) :?? waiting for the result

05-02-2008, 08:17 AM	#57 (permalink)
cachcoco cachcoco Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: wyoming Posts: 272 My Mood: Points: 618.96 Bank: 98.52 Total Points: 717.47 Donate	You are welcolme! I just wish I could give you better info but I just dont know, but I think its really early so try..... I am not going to say relax!!! But try to just breath and test again in a few days. __________________ Cathy 36 Dh 32 DS1 15 DS2 9 myspace.com/cachcoco To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

05-02-2008, 08:23 AM	#58 (permalink)
Safyre Kickin for daylight Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Ontario,Canada Posts: 170 My Mood: Points: 8,415.33 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 8,415.33 Donate	Miria - its still really early!! the earliest i've been a true bfp is cd 10.... my temp didn't 'jump' this morning.... argh..... damn body better figure things out!! lol __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Me 25 Him 27 Diagnosed PCOS 06/07 Rx Metformin 500 mg/day 5/30/2007 up'd 1000mg/day 09/01/07 up'd 1500 mg/day 11/22/07 HSG Sept 27th, All Clear!!! Hubs SA- Count 32 million, motility 50% First Round of Clomid 02-22 BUST, no O To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

05-02-2008, 12:14 PM	#59 (permalink)
nessak nessak Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Southwestern Indiana Posts: 421 My Mood: Points: 6,402.50 Bank: 3,815.45 Total Points: 10,217.95 Donate	Miria~Sorry you are so stressed hon, I agree try again in a few days. BABYDUST* I took a personal day hoping to get some shopping and cleaning done but I can't seem to get out of the house let alone the bed. AAARRRGGGHH I hate when I am like this! There is tornado warnings out today so I proably shouldn't be out anyways. Have a good weekend ladies. __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Vanessa (25) Matthew (26) Praying for a Healthy Baby in 2008/2009! To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.