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Old 11-09-2006, 07:12 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Unhappy Ruby isn't going to be a big sister (yet)

I wish I had never posted a thread saying she was. Over the weekend I miscarried our baby, I was 12 weeks gone but they think the baby never grew beyond the size of 7 weeks.

I just felt so confident this time because I got pregnant so quickly and because of the no.of days into my cycle that I got some good positive hpt's. I wish I hadn't got carried away with it.

Emotionally, I managed to get through the weekend ok, but it was weird, somehow I still felt pregnant, but the last 2 days I have really felt it. I don't know if it's my hormones or it's just starting to sink in. I feel so down about it at the moment. I'm lucky I have Ruby, John & my family, they help. I just wish we cysters didn't have to go through this as often as we do.

I miss my 4 angels, they are in my heart forever. Thanks for letting me talk.
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Old 11-09-2006, 08:21 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I am so very sorry for your loss. No matter how many living children you have, it will always hurt.

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Old 11-09-2006, 10:57 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Sorry about your loss, ***HUGS***
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Old 11-10-2006, 03:54 AM   #4 (permalink)
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hi blue, I am very sorry for your loss (((hugs))). I m/c'd in Sept at 11 weeks, baby only developed to 81/2 weeks... I had to have a d&c b/c my body didn't realize what was going on ... anyhow, its hard when you are toward the end of 1st trimester, I was excited too, now next time I won't be excited until i give birth. again, I am so sorry..
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Old 11-10-2006, 04:54 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Old 11-11-2006, 12:42 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Old 11-12-2006, 10:11 AM   #7 (permalink)
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I am so sad to read this, sweetie. I hope you can find comfort somehow. I agree that cysters have far too many of these heartbreaks... Hugs to you!!
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Old 11-12-2006, 10:12 AM   #8 (permalink)
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honey i am so sorry - i know it takes time but i hope u feel mor positve soon xx again im so sorry (((hugs)))
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