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Old 07-11-2004, 02:43 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Unhappy It's been almost 2 years...

....since we lost our precious baby boy. He would be 2 on July 15th. I am having a really hard dealing with his upcoming birthday. I miss him so much.

For those who don't know my story, you can visit www.geocities.com/mom2dallas for my little tribute to my baby.

Please send prayers and positive thoughts my way. I am really struggling and I could use some support. Thank you.
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Old 07-11-2004, 03:04 AM   #2 (permalink)
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tons of prayers and ((Hugs)) your way in the following few weeks to come. I am so sorry for your loss
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Old 07-11-2004, 05:32 AM   #3 (permalink)
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hi
my thoughts are with you and your hubby. I dont quite know how you are feeling, but my best friend had a still born girl one day after her due date 26 june 2001 and thet upset me for months and months I still remember her birthday and put flowers on her grave. and im not her mum . and i do have a framed photo of her in my room where i am on my compputer.

so I know it must be really hard as a parent

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Old 07-11-2004, 01:23 PM   #4 (permalink)
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These little lights will never go out. They will be with us forever.

A friend of mine who has lost many family members sent me a candle after my loss. She said that some days, she will burn a candle all day for her loved one and think of them fondly every time she sees that light. It really works for me on those tough days. I hope that this might comfort you a little bit. And I'll be thinking of you and your husband.
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Old 07-11-2004, 05:03 PM   #5 (permalink)
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So sorry about your loss.
I have 3 July angel babies.
I have found through the yrs that it really does get easier. It's just something we never forget and it's always in the back of our minds.
My babies would have been 25, 9, and 8.
I have a 20 yr old DD and 18 week DS!!
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My thoughts and prayers are with you. i am so sorry. I too have suffered a loss and it NEVER goes away. I will be thinking of you. Take care and God Bless. I loved Dallas' webpage. It's beautiful...he's beautiful...

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Old 07-12-2004, 12:26 AM   #7 (permalink)
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I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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I'm sending out (((((big hugs))))) and will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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((((((big hugs)))
Im thinking of you and your little family and hoping you get through the next few days and weeks okay. Just remember that our little angels are always with us.
Here is a poem that was given to me and really helps me, I hope it does the same for you.....

Words from and Angel
I have not turned my back on you, So there is no need to cry.
I'm watching you from heaven, just beyond the morning sky.
I've seen you almost fall apart, when you could barely stand.
I asked the lord to comfort you, and watched him take your hand.
He told me you are in more pain, than I will ever be.
He wiped his eyes and swallowed hard, then gave your hand to me.
Although you may not feel my touch, or see me by your side,
I've whispered that I love you, While I've wiped each tear you've cried.
So please try not to ache for me, We'll meet again one day.
Beyond the dark and stormy sky, A rainbow lights the way.


My thoughts and prayers go out to you as you remember your little Dallas
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Old 07-13-2004, 06:53 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Default Hugs Jessica...

I wish I had great words of comfort and wisdom, but I don't. Dallas should be here with you and JR. It is not fair and not right. Please know that your precious boy, Dallas will always be close by because he is in your heart. I know that it is little comfort. Take care and treat yourself and JR very easy on these hardest of days.


Happy 2nd Birthday in heaven little cutie, Dallas! I hope that you are a happy little guardien angel for your wonderful earth family!!
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Old 07-13-2004, 07:00 PM   #11 (permalink)
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I dont know what to say!
Your homepage had me crying!!!
He was soo beautiful!
He is your ANGEL NOW...just know that!

Stay STRONG!
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Old 07-13-2004, 07:21 PM   #12 (permalink)
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You are in our thoughts and prayers. I know there are no words, but we all care so much and share your hurt.
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Old 07-14-2004, 03:18 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Prayers and hugs.

I can't even imagine. I hope you can do something special on his birthday to celebrate his spirit and gives you some peace during this time.
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((hugs)) Jessica.
I have followed your story and visited Dallas' page. You and your DH are so brave. You remain in my thoughts.
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I am so very sorry.

I went to your webpage. You did a great job. Dallas is a very beautiful baby and now he is your angel.

I am sure he is watching over you and Ben!!!

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