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Old 09-24-2005, 03:15 PM   #1 (permalink)
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we just had found out 2 weeks ago that I was a month pregnant, went for first u\s yesterday to find out there is no baby, I have a blighted ovum a six week sac with no baby, I am so broken hearted has this happened to you before and can it happen again and is it a pcos thing.......
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Old 09-24-2005, 03:21 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I replied to you on the rant board but again, so sorry for your loss....


As for it being a PCOS thing, I don't think it's related (although someone please correct be if I'm wrong). From what I've read, it can happen in as many of 50% of pregnancies...It happens more that people think because it's before most women even know they are pregnant...I think it seems like it happens alot with PCOS because we are so in tune with our bodies and seem to know about pregnancy before most women would suspect they were pregnant. I hope that made sense....

Again, I hope you can find some comfort here....These girls are wonderful and supportive.
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Old 09-24-2005, 03:21 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I havent started miscarrying yet how long well it take i just went off my pregestron supositories last night
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Old 09-24-2005, 05:25 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I am so sorry you are going through this. (((hugs)))
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(((hugs))) I am so sorry you are going through this. This happened to me in the beginning of August. I really thought the pregnancy was good and that I would carry to term unlike last time, but, it ended way too soon. Please don't lose hope for the future. It's going to be tough the next few days or weeks but it will get better. PM me if you need to talk, okay?
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I am so sorry for your loss. This also happened to me last year. Once they found out they gave me a week to see if I would miscarry on my own. I did exactly a week later. Again, I am very sorry for your loss........
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((Angel)). I'm so, so sorry. Everything you're feeling is normal - just go with it, even if you think you're going crazy.

I'll be thinking of you.

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I am so sorry for your loss. You and your dh are in my thoughts and prayers.



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so sorry. Eva
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I am so sorry for your loss....I just had that happen to me in August. I miscarried at 10 weeks but I didn't know it was a blighted ovum until I began to miscarry because I hadn't had my initial OB appointment yet. If you need to talk you can pm me ok? Just let yourself feel whatever emotions you have and express them however you need.

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I'm so sorry to hear your bad news.

It took me about a week after stopping the suppositories to m/c... but my progesterone only ever got to an 18 -- I think yours was much higher.

I am so saddened to hear of your loss. Please know that I'm thinking of you and your DH and your little angel.

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no mine only got to a 16 but my hcg level got to 950
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Ahh... that was your HCG level then that we were talking about. Even when I was over 30,000 I was a 14 I think.

What has your Dr told you? Do you need a D&C?

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Old 09-25-2005, 06:07 PM   #15 (permalink)
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I am so sorry you're going through this.

Take all the time you need to grieve. It may not seem like it now but time does help heal us.

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