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Old 11-10-2005, 04:00 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Saw a new councelor today

My old councelor was med happy, She seemed to think that everytime I had something happen in my life, she needed to up my doeage instead of helping me work through my emotions.
After my m/c she doubled my dose without even asking me how I was coping and if I was having exagerated feelings or "bad" feelings.
My new councelor actually listened to me and helped me to set a few goals for myself. She understood that yes this is a difficult time in my life, but my emotions are perfectly normal and agreed that drugging me would only mask the pain, not make it go away.
I'm ok, I mean I'm working the grieving process, I guess. I try to put on a happy face for Allen, not that he understands what's going on. But I don't want him to feel like Mommy is not there or pre-occupied.
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i'm glad you are with someone who makes more sense. grief involves letting the emotion flow and be dealt with, not watering it down. i was told by a grief counsellor that if you don't deal with the pain now, it is simply postponed for another time. it doesn't just disappear. for some of us with mood/emotional issues on top of grief, meds can keep things within a bearable range and are very helpful. upping the dose with each bad event in life isn't the answer i would want either.
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