last night my new bf asked me if i shaved my chin it was so embarrassing i don't know what to do now i'm going to feel so awkward getting intimate with him. i don't know what to do should i break up with him and has this ever happened to anyone before
Be brave and bold. Do not be ashamed. "Yes, I do shave my chin. I have this medical condition, PCOS.....". Start a conversation. If he is worth anything he will be understanding and accept it. I do not think he meant to be hurtful towards you, some men (and some women) just do not have a filter between the brain and mouth!
I would not break up with him over it. If you talk about this with him, you may find it very freeing to not have to be ashamed and hide it all the time. If he loves you it will not make a difference to him.
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Any updates on this post? It may be a little late, but I wanted to comment on this situation...
I have been with my DBF since December. He is my first BF, and I was/am scared ****less of this question. He has made comments like "scratchy" etc. after touching my face, which has brought me to or close to tears. I think he gets the idea that I'm a little bit sensitive about it, but he's too dense and curious to stop! So, I will say, as mortifying as this moment must have been, be thankful that your new BF isn't beating around the bush. I agree that, if you explain in a very factual way that it's a medical condition etc., he will be a lot more understanding. It might even be nice to just get it all out in the open up front instead of feeling like you have to hide it forever!
last night my new bf asked me if i shaved my chin it was so embarrassing i don't know what to do now i'm going to feel so awkward getting intimate with him. i don't know what to do should i break up with him and has this ever happened to anyone before
OK, so he's figured out you shave. He was going to find out eventually anyway.
Most guys like to know the truth and it wouldn't be natural if he didn't ask you. I'm not sure what you answered him, if anything, but I think the best way by far is simply to ask him to shave you. Make it something that bonds you together. Something special that other girls won't give him the chance to do. In fact, it can be a special form of intimacy all on its own.
Any updates on this post? It may be a little late, but I wanted to comment on this situation...
I have been with my DBF since December. He is my first BF, and I was/am scared ****less of this question. He has made comments like "scratchy" etc. after touching my face, which has brought me to or close to tears. I think he gets the idea that I'm a little bit sensitive about it, but he's too dense and curious to stop! So, I will say, as mortifying as this moment must have been, be thankful that your new BF isn't beating around the bush. I agree that, if you explain in a very factual way that it's a medical condition etc., he will be a lot more understanding. It might even be nice to just get it all out in the open up front instead of feeling like you have to hide it forever!
Of course it's best to be upfront about it. Actually my DH loves to rub his lips over my chin before I shave in the morning, when my chin's at its scratchiest and most bristly. It seems to give him a kick. And of course it does remind him of how the hormones that make my beard grow also make me keener than most women on the physical side of our relationship.
tanx guys wow joyblack you're the best i love you and i love the way you make your beard sexy tank God i found this site with people like you guys but its not the fact that he asked me that got me upset but like pcoscat said he was beating around the bush first and that really pissed me off i wouldn't have cared that much if he had asked instead of trying to get it out of me first i've had other boyfriends and most of them just played with it and giggled just to show me they found out but the way he did it upset me
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