im scared that this is all going to happen again i no that theres no real increase in the rate of mc if you have had one before but i just dont think i could cope if it happened again!! im ovulating again bang on what it should be and would really like to attempt to try and catch my eggy should i leave it this month and try next month??
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me 27 df 40 getting married july
trying to control my weight
on citalopram for depression
mummy to an angel lost 3rd january 2009
SECOND BFP JAN 29 09 STICK BABY STICK!
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I know how hard it is to continue to TTC after a loss. In my case, I was not allowed to try the next month - per my dr. I think you should do what you feel is best in your heart. If your dr hasn't put restrictions on you, then you need to do what is best for you.
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took around a week for my hcg levels to come down so i thought that i wouldnt ov this month and then here i get a face on a digital opk !! its such a scary time i was so excited to get that bfp and now im gonna be pooing myself if and when i get one!! but i guess nothing ventured nothing gained right?!
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me 27 df 40 getting married july
trying to control my weight
on citalopram for depression
mummy to an angel lost 3rd january 2009
SECOND BFP JAN 29 09 STICK BABY STICK!
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There are several ladies on here that lost their babies about the same time I did. Several of them are now pg again and scared to death. Although I am TTC, I will be scared as well if I do get that BFP.
For me, I would rather continue to try and work through my emotions if it happens then decide to quit TTC. But everyone heals at their own rate.
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I am scared, too. We had a m/c on 1/4/09 and we will start trying again in February. I'm excited but I am SO scared. Last time we told EVERYONE...this time I think we will wait, although I'm not good at keeping secrets. I hear that the chance of m/c goes down after the first one. I'm not sure how true that is with PCOS, but I think our chances are good to have a long healthy pregnancy. I don't think the scare will diminish much, even after months. I think I will always be freaked. Still, if you think YOU are ready, go for it. I think I would!
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I was instructed to wait two cycles (one of which had to be natural, the second I decided to take BCPs to shorten the wait) before we were allowed to try again. I think they do that mostly to let you regulate, but also to give you a little emotional time to heal. If your doc put no restrictions on you, then do what ever feels best to you. I think I would personally wait at least one cycle before I would try again.
No matter what you do, when you get your next BFP you will worry about it happening again. I did and am just now getting to the point where I am a little less stressed about it. For me, once I got into second trimester I was afraid of incompetent cervix issue even though everything would look great at my OB visits. I personally think I was more paranoid because my first pregnancy ended in m/c and I would have handled it better if I had already had a successful one before the loss. Just my opinion.
Good luck no matter what you decide to do. I am sure you will get a BFP soon and it will be a very sticky bean!
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trust me, every m/c is painful no matter how many you have. yes, sometimes you feel like you get to a point where you cant deal with having another m/c, but for me somehow my dream of becoming a mom someday pushes me on to ttc again.
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9 ANGEL BABES:
1 mc 12 wk March 2K
2 mc 20 wk Nov 2K (twins)
3 mc 8 wk Aug. 2K4
4 mc 6 wk Jan 2K7
5 mc 5 wk Dec 2k7
6 tubal preg May 08 6wk
7 blt ovum Oct 08 7.5 weeks
8 mc 5wk June 09
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I'm sorry for your loss. And I was scared to death to try again after my m/c. I finally did get preg and spent the whole time mortified that I was going to lose him too. But I had a very successful pregnancy and nothing went wrong. I even went on to have another very successful pregnancy. That time I was much more at ease. Looking back I wish that I was able to enjoy being pregnant with my first son as much as I did with my second son.
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9 ANGEL BABES:
1 mc 12 wk March 2K
2 mc 20 wk Nov 2K (twins)
3 mc 8 wk Aug. 2K4
4 mc 6 wk Jan 2K7
5 mc 5 wk Dec 2k7
6 tubal preg May 08 6wk
7 blt ovum Oct 08 7.5 weeks
8 mc 5wk June 09
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scared to try again.... 
face on a digital opk !! its such a scary time i was so excited to get that bfp and now im gonna be pooing myself if and when i get one!! but i guess nothing ventured nothing gained right?!
