Sex question....possibly completely unrelated to PCOS (sorry)!!!
Hi, okay so here goes...on the topic of orgasms! Well, I occasionally masturbate, which I think is quite a normal and natural thing for any woman to want to do and I enjoy this and I normally climax with an orgasm. I have never had full intercourse with a man as I want to wait for a loving, honest, special relationship but I have experienced a lot of other sexual activities, or whatever you'd call them! Anyway, as much as I get aroused and really enjoy all this foreplay I have never actually orgasmed. I do want to, and maybe I concentrate too much on thinking I should, but either way it has never happened and it makes me sad. I know I would not be happy in a serious relationship if I could never experience an orgasm with my partner. Is there anyone else who knows how I feel or has any enlightening and helpful advice? Can this be combatted? Please say yes! By the way, I'm taking the BCP Dianette as part of my PCOS treatment, and maybe this has something to do with. Then again, I do orgasm when I masturbate... Help would be greatly appreciated, thanks!
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No, I haven't...but what I really want is to be able to have an orgasm while with a man that I love. Maybe that could incorporate sex toys...never really thought about it, thanks anyway.
i'm the same, much better with the DIY, so what my ex and i used to do was incorporate that into it, oh dear can't believe i'm telling someone this but its less deviant than it sounds honest, heliked to watch and er help out if ya know what i mean? anyway never stopped us enjoying ourselves. oh just adding while i could sometimes o not on pill when on pill completely impossible except DIY also less lubricated so that may be part of your problem. oh, gonna go now and stop telling deviant stories
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If you're having a problem orgasming with your partner, but no problems with yourself, maybe you just have to guide your man? Show him what you like so that he knows what will help you out!
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I have some tips for you, but I'm not entirely comfortable with posting them on here. If you want to hear about my experience (any of you) feel free to email me at mld71480@hotmail.com - I don't want to offend anyone with the graphic nature of what I could say! :p
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Hi everyone and thanks for your honest replies - keep them coming! It really is comforting to know that I'm not the only who worries about this little issue; that we often feel like we shouldn't be so open about. Thing is, it's a normal part of life, so it makes sense to want to discuss it. Thanks again (((HUGS)))
i'm exactly the same...except i have had full intercourse with 3 different partners and fooled around a lot more. i'm also on dianette. i only orgasm on my own...one of the things i noticed tho was that i'm not used to an audience so it took me ages to even get aroused with anyone else...try turning the tv on so u get used to noise around you...maybe phone someone or try cyber sex!
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Hi... I never had an orgasm with a man either, unless I masturbated with his hand (using it to rub against) as I would rub against my own when I was by myself. I've been with women as well and I still can't orgasm through penetration. Part of me thinks I only can orgasm via the way I masturbate.
I have some tips for you, but I'm not entirely comfortable with posting them on here. If you want to hear about my experience (any of you) feel free to email me at mld71480@hotmail.com - I don't want to offend anyone with the graphic nature of what I could say! :p
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I found that was my problem too. I used to stress about it too much about how I looked, sounded etc. I had to learn to relax and just enjoy it. Your guy may need some guidance too. (gotta love these new smilies) I've been with DBF for 10 years and our sex life has gotten better. I think we're just more comfortable with each other and know what works.
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I won't say much here - but my DBF and I have yet to actually "do the deed" together. We do, however, have the most incredible phone sex. I'm hoping it will actually enhance our time together when it happens because we talk a lot about what we like and what we're doing, want done, etc.
Also, check out cosmopolitan.com - there are a lot of tips on the message boards and links to other sites with tips. Just be aware that some of those links may take you to some questionable material.
Good luck.
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I think concentrating too much on orgasming is one of the best ways to make it not happen...for me anyways. It just puts too much pressure on me, and I tense up.
So, my suggestion is just enjoy yourself...don't even think about having an o. Just enjoy what's happening at the moment without thinking of what you want to happen. Also, you may want to try masturbating while with your partner. Maybe give him some pointers on what you like....
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Sex question....possibly completely unrelated to PCOS (sorry)!!! 
Thanks! 
(gotta love these new smilies) I've been with DBF for 10 years and our sex life has gotten better. I think we're just more comfortable with each other and know what works. 
