Well last night DBF and I were DTD and it was like always..it hurt like hell for me. But what hurts the most is when I'm on top of him. Has anyone had this problem before? It just hurts so much and feels like he's ripping me open (sorry if thats TMI) but anyone have this happen? I dont want him doing all the "work" in the bed room so I dont know what else to do.
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Well, I have had similar pain with a certain angle of penetration. Part of it is that I have a Bartholian's cyst on my cervix and sometimes it hurts gettinng poked in just he wrong way, and sometimes I think the pain is ovavian cyst related, and feels like a lower version of a stitch in your side you get when running after a meal or whatever. And then again, sometimes it just hurts because I'mall dried out down there. You're not alone!
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I have the opposite of that, only when i am on top does it hurt like mad monkeys!!! I have been tring to find a postition that will be enjoyable for both of us.
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I can't DARE "on top"... because I am sure it's going to hurt even more.
But I've heard it becomes okay gradually... so I am banking on that.
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For some reason, being on top is very hard for me to do...maybe it's because the both of us are fluffy. My main problem for the most part is being dry. So far, the only position that doesn't cause me to be dry is doggie style.
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Yes, I get pain when I'm on top as well unless I lean forward a lot. I still don't really know why but at a certain angle it feels like it's going in too far or something.
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Well last night DBF and I were DTD and it was like always..it hurt like hell for me. But what hurts the most is when I'm on top of him. Has anyone had this problem before? It just hurts so much and feels like he's ripping me open (sorry if thats TMI) but anyone have this happen? I dont want him doing all the "work" in the bed room so I dont know what else to do.
It's a question of doing everything the way that suits both of you best. Assuming his penis is not extra big in circumference or extra long (or you extra tight or an extra-short vagina, the problem is to learn how to get the angle right so that his penis slides straight up your vagina rather than forcing its way in at an angle. You need to be very careful not to force things when you're on top -- I've heard it's actually possible to break a penis.
It's a question of doing everything the way that suits both of you best. Assuming his penis is not extra big in circumference or extra long (or you extra tight or an extra-short vagina, the problem is to learn how to get the angle right so that his penis slides straight up your vagina rather than forcing its way in at an angle. You need to be very careful not to force things when you're on top -- I've heard it's actually possible to break a penis.
He's pretty much the normal size for a guy. And we dont force things..normally when i say "outch " he doesnt want to do anymore because he's hurting me.
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You're quite right that there's no bone in it, but it's not only bones that can break :-)
The fact that there's no bone in a penis is one reason they're so variable in size -- in some guys the penis may not change much in size from soft to hard but in others it may change drastically -- it all depends whether the tissues which get hard stay partially-engorged with blood or whether they go completely flaccid and soft. Apparently with some guys their penis more or less disappears in very cold conditions as the blood supply is drained from it to protect the rest of the body from the cold.
LOL Joy, I told DH about that a few weeks ago and the poor guy went white and got completely nauseated! I mean he was sick thinking about it! I told him "That's why I don't ride you hard when you ask me to...I'm trying to look out for you. I don't want you to get hurt!"...and boy did he appreciate that! Of course, then I had to give it some TLC and reassure it that everything would be okay LOL.
Anywho, I do find certain angles are painful quite simply because he is on the *ahem* large side in length and girth. So some positions are just a no-go. If I'm on top, I have to lean way forward...basically lying directly on top of him...otherwise it bumps my cervix and hurts like nobody's business. If I pull my legs back too far in missionary, same thing. I'm short, but I do have a deeper-than-average vagina (or so my OBGYN tells me lol), but there are still positions that I just cannot do (Reverse Cowgirl, for instance...I would have to lean forward toward his legs, but he doesn't like when his member is at that extreme angle. He'd rather me go straight up and down, which is impossible for me because he's so darn big).
Man, this postpartum period is killing me!!! No sex for at least 4 weeks!
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I understand what you are talking about. Have you tried using some kind of lubricant like KY Jelly or if you are ttc ing try Pre-Seed. I've used Pre-Seed and it is really good. Even my husband could tell the difference.
were not TTC yet but it was just the problem of it hurting alot. we've tried diffrent lubricants and still that didnt even work for us. But last weekend we tried doing it again and I was on top. and It didnt hurt at all. I'ts weird.
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I have noticed that sex completely sucks when I'm on top. I don't know if its because I have a bad knee, or just don't know how to move right, but it just doesn't even feel like it's in me when he is. I prefer missionary overall.
I want to try doggystyle but my husband has a hard time with that for some reason too.
It looks so easy in the movies. ugh.
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