My mom went through menopause starting around age 41. I suspect that she had PCOS even though she was never diagnosed, but I think also that I read somewhere that women with PCOS are more likely to go through menopause at an eariler age than women without PCOS.
I'm only 25 so I don't know the answer. And while menopause is a sign of growing older, it also means no more periods, which sound like they have been/are very painful for you. Maybe it's a positive thing you can focus on?
I hope you find an answer.
