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  1. 08-02-2005 10:23 PM #1
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    Unhappy Why can't I be happy?

    Well, I just found out my bestfriend is pregnant. Beleive me when I say she deserves it. She's overcome so much in her life and has worked her butt off for everything she has. She put herself through college and has even bought her own house. She's been there for me through thick and thin.

    So, why can't I be happy for her? I feel like the worst friend ever.
    Amanda (26) Luis (26)
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    *hugs* I know how you feel my friend just got a bfp. It hurts!! But that doesn't mean your aren't happy for her.
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  3. 08-02-2005 10:26 PM #3
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    I can't explain how I feel. I am happy for her but at the same time I wish I had what she has. I wish I had done things differently. I could kick myself in the butt!!!
    Amanda (26) Luis (26)
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    Advised of misdiagnosis April 2006 I don't have PCOS but I do have amenorrhea
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    You have a lot of emotions all mixed up right now. You are not a bad friend, if you were, you wouldn't be upset about not being able to fully be happy for her. Hugs.

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    It sounds like you are happy for her. You sound like a great friend! Nothing wrong with being jealous, it's a healthy human emotion. I'm sending lots of *~*BABYDUST*~*your way!
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    Thank you!!!
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    Ratito "we" have alot going on meaning you and I. We have to put everything on hold for just a minute you will see things will be better by the end of the year! And of course your her friend like someone else said you wouldn't be a good friend it it didn't bother you for not being happy it's human nature jealously hell I got jealous when my friend got preggers too...your not alone mamacita!
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    Thanks Chula!!!

    And you're right. There is too much going on!! Is this year over yet?
    Amanda (26) Luis (26)
    Married Sept 4, 2004
    Diagnosed PCOS 1996
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    Mommy to 2 fur babies Miko (2years) & Napoleon (5 yo)
    Advised of misdiagnosis April 2006 I don't have PCOS but I do have amenorrhea
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