We adopted our dd thru foster to adoption in Houston. She came to us at 6 weeks old. We were actually interested in older school aged children. But in our county we had an abundanced of babies. I was asked several times to a baby but I was not prepared so I declined. But for some reason when they asked about dd my dh said yes without asking me. I was at work. I had to call my Mom to see if she could watch her during the day. Anyway, we fell in love the minute we saw her. But she was a foster baby and it was the hardest job I ever had. Taking the children to see their bios, hearing the sad stories, taking the children to dr's visits, loving and losing them. But I loved every minute of it. And I never prayed so much as when I was a foster parent. And my home was never empty. I wish you and your dh the best in your decision. Try:
www.fosterparents.com It is a great resource if you get into foster/adopt. Good luck!