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    Aussie Cyster Christy Gray will become famous soon enough Christy Gray's Avatar
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    Unhappy So very very sad right now

    I lost our baby this morning and I thought I was dealing with it but now I am not. I just don't know how to stop crying.

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    IM REALLY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS JUST KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PLEASE DONT GIVE UP HOPE IM SURE WHEN YOU FEEL THE TIME IS RIGHT THINGS WILL GO WELL FOR YOU

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    I am so sorry for your loss. I know exactly how you are feeling. Unfortunatly, the pain dulls but it does not go away. I think about my two losses everyday. We are plannng a nice vacation because I really feel that I need to have things to look forward to so I don't go in a depression. Do what ever you think will help you get through this. I hope that you have family and friends who will be there for you through this diffcult time. You know that you have all of us here! Take care. Again, I am really sorry that you have to go through this.

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    Sending lot of (((((HUGS))))) your way. I know exactly how you feel and know how hard it is to function. You need to cry and let your emotions out. This is very normal. Each day will get a little better but some days will be very hard. Just take one at a time.

    You will be in my thoughts and prayers,

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    I'm so very sorry for your loss. It's ok to be sad and allow yourself plenty of time to heal. You'll be in my thoughts.
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    oh honey, its ok to cry. its been 3 months and i still have days when i cant stop crying. be good to yourself, allow yourself time to heal. it will not happen overnite but you will get through this. and when you need to talk do it. this is a great place to come for support. take all the time you need to mourn the loss of your precious babe. ((((((hugs)))))))

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    Oh Christy, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. It is perfectly alright for you to cry. My heart goes out to you. I truly understand your pain. Take care.... (((HUG)))

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    You deal with it as long and as slow as it needs to happen. Don't worry about "getting over it" Crying is the only way to relieve your pain. Although time has healed my wounds, I still cry for my loss children and think of them often.

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    christy.....i`m so sorry for your loss

    You need to cry right now so don`y worry about that. I think of the children i have lost often & still cry when some memory touches that nerve.

    The pain of losing a baby is very real....& lasts a long time. But it will fade........we`re all here for you if you need to talk

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    Christy
    I'm so very very sorry for the loss of your precious little baby. I have not been on my computer much over the past couple of weeks so I have only just seen this post. I'm so sad to see this (and so many other posts that have been made here in the past week or so). My thoughts and prayers are with you. Wishing you strength and lots of love at this devestating time.

    Amy

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