It doesn't matter what the man has on his side of the family. The type of twinning that is passed in families is fraternal and this happens when a women releases more than one egg at a time. Think of it as almost a sort of ovulatory dysfunction... just as so many other disorders tend to run in families, so does this. But obviously only the woman can actually exhibit the symptom of multiple ovulations. A man, however, could pass the tendency down to a daughter.
Sometimes fraternal twins are just a fluke, though, and not the result of a tendency that will be passed along. Identical twinning, as far as I know, is always a fluke thing... one egg meets one sperm and divides into two seperate beings. (I could be wrong... but everything I have ever read says identical twins are always a fluke)
For some reason, as women age, they are more likely to have fraternal twins.
So if your uncles are identical or your grandmother had them late in life - twinning may not even be an issue for you.
I have read that with clomid, the liklihood of twins is 8-10% compared to 2% or so in the normal population. I am not sure if that 2% in the normal population is all incidents of twinning or just fraternal twinning, though.
It seems that the vast majority ofr women who get pregnant on clomid have just one baby.
I have read that the incidence of higher order multiples - 3 or more - is not increased with clomid.
I have read that when you move on to injecable meds, the chance of twins raises to 1 in 3 or so...
As for metformin, every one is different... I had very mild upset at first - VERY mild... met never really proved to be the miracle drug I was looking for either, though. I'd have been happy to have more bad side effects if I had gotten more good ones, too.
