Soul cysters...I want to know..um well I am dating this guy and we have been dating for a while...we have been intimate but always in the dark as i am afraid to show him me....but he made a comment one day about how he didnt like hairy women or something like that and i am afraid for him to see my hair...so i am constantly shaving but i dont want to have any secrets from him...how do i approach this subject...help me please! thanks vicky
I used to say I was going to find myself a city bloke and have no kids and travel the world.
I met a country bloke with a son and I'm more than happy to spend the rest of my life where I am right now!
I guess what I'm trying to say is that we all have our preferences but at the end of the day if its love and its meant to be, our preferences can go right out the window!
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I have been in this situation myself, countless times. It's never easy and sometimes I handled it better than others. I can tell you this - you shouldn't keep hiding it because eventually it will be noticed. Guys say stupid thoughtless things sometimes. I am happily married now to a great guy who loves me for me and the hair thing was not an issue. Whenever I was dating a guy that I thought I was becoming close to, I would pick a non intimate, casual moment and briefly say - I have a medical condition that causes my hormones to be out of whack, so I have this extra hair - I'm very sensitive about it and I don't like talking about it. End of story. Nine times out of ten the subject was dropped immediately and whatever happened after that happened. If he's one of those guys that are so shallow that he can't get past something like this, then it is better to know sooner than later, so that you can go on to meet your great guy like I did. Best of luck and stay strong!
thank you guys so much i told him about it an he was like well ok an he was very accepting about it and i am happy he was cuz i am so in love with him! thanks for the advice!
Just wanted to say that I am glad you told him. It takes alot of courage to be honest about our condition the first time, but it is so worth it when you are with "the one"!
I did the same thing with my DH (before we were married). I bucked up and told him. He didn't care! It was one of the most awesome feelings in the world that he accepted me for who I was, regardless!
Sending to you for a happy, wonderful future!
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So nervous...and afraid 
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