So there is hope after a loss to get pregnant again, we just found out we have had a blighted ovum, which means baby doesn't grow past conception, and I hhave noy miscarried yet ...tmif I know but waiting for that to happen, just wondering how long it took you guys to the point where you tried again after you m\c...... hoping all is well with you all.....and prayfor us I want this to hurryup and happen so i can move on....
i haven't gotten to that point yet but i am sure you will find others that have to talk to. take care of yourself, i wish you minmal physical pain and send a hug for the colassal heart pain
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I HAD to wait 3 months because I had to get an MMR immunization. I WANTED to try again right away, and HATED waiting, but I knew it was the best thing for future pregnancies that I be immune to rubella.
I didn't have an early loss. I lost Rivi at 24W, and I'm STILL not ready! LOL! I think that, in my case, I NEVER would have been ready. Some women here have said that you'll just know when it's time to try again. I never got that feeling.
I'm not emotionally ready to try again. I've had 2 losses this year. After my first loss, all I wanted to do was cry!!! However, I never lost hope and I don't ever want to lose hope about TTC. DH and I were discussing this last night. He's ready to try again. I hope I can catch up with him soon!
(((hugs))) See you on the karma thread!
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2nd loss - my little angel, could only stay with us for a little while, 8 weeks, August 3, 2005
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I just recently went through a m/c as well, and I am hoping to be to the point of wanting to try again soon. I know you said that you are waiting to miscarry right now, and I went through that kind of wait for 3 weeks also. I hated the waiting part! I don't know if your doctors have put you on any medication or suggested any herbs to take to help the m/c along, but if they haven't, I strongly suggest asking about either option. I took herbs to help my m/c come after we found out that the baby had stopped developing, and I don't know if I ever would have m/c naturally if I hadn't had the herbs. I hope your wait is over shortly, and that the healing (physical and emotional) is accompanied with peace from God. {{hugs}}
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I have been ready to get back on the horse so to speak within a week of miscarrying each time. That doesn't mean that I'll get pg that month, but I wouldn't want to waste a month I guess.
For me, a m/c just makes me even more determined to have a healthy baby.
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I am ready to try again. I want to be a mom. I feel like I have waited long enough for this to happen and don't want to put it off. I am going in to see the Dr in a week to discuss what is next. Last time we talked he said we are going to do the same clomid and Repronex shots cycle. I wonder if my wanting to TTC will diminish a bit after I get started doing the cycle again. It is so time consuming and draining. At this point I am wanting to get the ball rolling. I hope it doesn't change. Every day that passes is one day longer that I don't have a baby to hold nine months from now.
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Well although i will say there IS hope...i can honestly say that when i lost my girls it didnt seem like it at the time!! I was an emotional mess...took me 5 months to go back to work, and when i look back on my posts written during that time i sound like a completely different person! Also til i went back to work i didnt even have insurance coverage so the choice was taken out of my hands. I'd say i was physically ready alot earlier then emotionally ready...i had aimee and dana in feb and i'd say by june i was seriously 'thinking' of ttcing again but couldnt start anything til september...dh was worried about my age and seeing me dissapointed again (thats not the right word...devestated maybe) so i would say thats what i call the 'limbo stage'...ready to go but tied to a tree unable to move...thats when the ttc after a loss thread came in handy. When i think of it me and sheri and clarissa and others were all on it together...now look!! But i have to say it was my last go at the rodeo...if it didnt work then that was it for me...so i really put alot of effort into researching and forming a gameplan...i read and asked questions and prepared to do whatever it took (drove my doctors CRAZY ) and my whole existance revolved around having a successful pregnancy...that meant no working, no income...no leaving my house!!! Though supportive my friends and family thought i was nuts, my dh was scared out of his mind and my kids lost their mom and gained a human couch potato...it was a huge sacrifice for my family and absolute obsession on my part but so worth it...not easy...but i wouldnt have it anyother way.
So, now youre prepared!! And its true...when the time is right you just know. My biggest hurdle was the guilt...feeling like i was replacing the girls i lost with another baby...sort of like trivializing their place in my life...that was hard. I asked their help...prayed they'd pick me out a baby soul and i can say i honestly belive Logan is here because of them. Logans due date was august 8 (08/08) My twin girls were born on the 8th (08 and 08) Coincidence??? Dont think so
Good luck!!!
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Angelbear~ I'm so sorry for your loss. I had 2 blighted ovums, one in June 2003 and another in September 2003 (waitied a month in between injectable cycles per RE advice) I went thru all the testing and did not want to try again until I had some clue *why*. I don't know what i would have done if they didn't find anything, honestly, but they did see a LPD and increased my p4, which was successful for us. Supposedly the bo is not that common, but I sure see it a lot on these boards. I know my RE suspected it was something to do with poor implantation, but seems that my p4 dropped 3 days after O'ing and they just couldn't keep going without it. Best of luck to you and many hugs, jennifer
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Inj #2 8/03, pg 8/03, m/c 9/03
ectopic twin 10/03 RPL testing 11/03-normal
Lap/hsg/biopsy 1/04- LPD found
Inj#3 4/04 bfn
Inj #4 4/04, pg 5/04-He Stuck- p4 ROCKS!!
Samuel James 7 lbs, 12 oz, 20.5 in born via c-section 1/4/05
ttc#2 10/13/06 BFP 1st shot cycle!! Sophia Louise 5 lbs, 13 oz 18 in born via c-section 5/22/07 after water broke 6w early
I am very sorry for your loss. I m/c in July and began trying again at the end of August. I was ready. This is a personal decision. You must decide for yourself. ((((HUGS))))
Angelbear- I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I'm sending you lots of prayers. (((HUGS)))
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so there is hope 
I was an emotional mess...took me 5 months to go back to work, and when i look back on my posts written during that time i sound like a completely different person! Also til i went back to work i didnt even have insurance coverage so the choice was taken out of my hands. I'd say i was physically ready alot earlier then emotionally ready...i had aimee and dana in feb and i'd say by june i was seriously 'thinking' of ttcing again but couldnt start anything til september...dh was worried about my age and seeing me dissapointed again (thats not the right word...devestated maybe) so i would say thats what i call the 'limbo stage'...ready to go but tied to a tree unable to move...thats when the ttc after a loss thread came in handy. When i think of it me and sheri and clarissa and others were all on it together...now look!! But i have to say it was my last go at the rodeo...if it didnt work then that was it for me...so i really put alot of effort into researching and forming a gameplan...i read and asked questions and prepared to do whatever it took (drove my doctors CRAZY 
) and my whole existance revolved around having a successful pregnancy...that meant no working, no income...no leaving my house!!! Though supportive my friends and family thought i was nuts, my dh was scared out of his mind and my kids lost their mom and gained a human couch potato...it was a huge sacrifice for my family and absolute obsession on my part but so worth it...not easy...but i wouldnt have it anyother way.
And its true...when the time is right you just know. My biggest hurdle was the guilt...feeling like i was replacing the girls i lost with another baby...sort of like trivializing their place in my life...that was hard. I asked their help...prayed they'd pick me out a baby soul and i can say i honestly belive Logan is here because of them. Logans due date was august 8 (08/08) My twin girls were born on the 8th (08 and 08) Coincidence??? Dont think so 
