I accidently came across this when searching the net for miscarriage and septums.
On my ultrasound report it says 'missed abortion' 'no heartbeat' 'non viable pregnancy' and 'mild subchironic haemorahge' (sp?).
So from what I'm reading chromosonally there was probably nothing wrong with my embryo but the placenta failing to supply blood to the embryo?
Again, I'm so sorry for your loss. Sometimes the answers are hard to come by. A 'mild subchironic haemorahge' might be the answer, but women have them without m/c, too. It could be hormonally related. It could be chromosomal. The truth is that you may never know. I have experienced many m/c and I have no answers for most of them. I can only speculate that mine were due to low progesterone. I did have a "bleed outside of the uterus" during my pregnancy with my son. I don't know if it was a subchironic haemorahge, but based on what I've read, that must be what it was.
Thanks, you are right. I just really want/need an answer.
I really admire your courage & strength Laurann.
I thought I'd get married, go off the pill and after around 6 months of ttc I'd be pregnant, have a healthy child and that be that!
I guess Im grieving the loss of my baby and the dream of an easy conception & trouble free pregnancy.
Here I am now nearly 12 months later with even more unanswered questions & a miscarriage behind me. Not what I planned on at all. Yet all around me friends, colleagues, family seem to achieve it all so effortlessly.
It really hurts.
You sound just like me. I swear those are almost my exact words when I start my birthstory with my son. If you're ready to read about the birth of another child you can visit my website at www.myPCOSbaby.com. Warning, you will bombarded with pics of my 20 month old. If you are not ready to handle seeing babies don't go.
The link just to the birthstory page is Birthstory Page. That only has u/s pics on it. I also have a pregnancy loss page that I just added. The direct link to it is Pregnancy Loss Page
I've got nothing to add except I hate losing the dream that it will come easy, too. I wish I could know my fertile times, have sex then, have that be it. But I don't have fertile times terribly often... I am so envious of women with normal cycles and control over this whole thing! And then all they do is whine and moan about how awful it is to have a period every month.
I'm so sorry for your loss
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I had quite a large subchorionic bleed during my last pregnancy. While I didn't miscarry, my son was born with a few congenital issues, and it's hard to know whether or not the bleed played a part in that. I've read in some cases it can be the reason for m/c, but it is nothing you could have had any control over, and many pregnancies are unaffected by it.
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Today I feel so depressed about it.
I'm at the end of an AF, so according to my GYN I can now start ttc again.
I feel lousy though. I'm scared, I'm sad. I really want to just have a few drinks but then I think I can't because I want to ttc.
Sorry just felt like a whinge.