HOLLAND

I have to be a witness in court to an accident I saw happen several weeks ago. I'm afraid it's all going to fall on the same day. What would happen if I needed to go to the Dr's office at the same time as the court date?

I'm also feeling a little overwhelmed right now because it seems that everything is falling within the same week. Everyone and their brother are on vacation at my job that week so that would mean me having to be off unexpectantly one day to have my IUI done. I've thought about postponing it until Aug when things are a bit slower at work.

Please give me some advice ladies....I'm freaking out here!!!!!!!!!


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duffeygal

That's usually how stuff happens. To me it seems like it's always about everyone else. I have to make time for myself. A job is important but you are more important and making youself happy should be #1 right now.

jl6715

As far as the subpoena goes, call the attorney on the subpoena and explain to him/her that you have a doctor's appointment that day and ask that he/she give you an idea of what time you will be needed to testify. Typically these trials don't take long, and the attorney can probably pin it down to an hour or so, leaving the rest of the day free for your appt. You may also want to talk to your dr's office to see if they can be flexible with you should they need to. If you end up not Oing on that day, then you can show up as planned originally.

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Shawnee1

Hi Holland, is this ur 1st IUI ? They don't take to long...U bring in the SA and wait maybe 30 minutes for them to spin it, then the actual IUI only takes 5 minutes, then u'll lay there with ur butt up for 15/20 minutes then be on ur way, so depending on how far the Dr office is u should be back to work in an hour. And concerning the court hearing, find out the time and try to schedule the IUI around it , if u can....
But if u can't then don't stress and do it Aug when u have more free time, cuz u do want to try and be stress free b4 and after the IUI.
Good Luck on whatever u decide
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HOLLAND

The problem is that we live about 1 1/2 hours from the RE office. So not only could it fall on that day but we also have traveling we would need to do to get there. I know they don't take too long since I've already had 2 done before. I would call the attorney if there was one listed. However it's the state suing the girl that got hit by the car.

I just don't know what to do
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I really want to have the IUI done this month. I keep thinking about what duffey said. I have thought about sitting down and talking to my manager and saying that I will be having a procedure done this month and that I'm going to need the day off.

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MahoganyJazz

You should be able to write a statement and send it to the district attorney that is handling the case. That would count as your testimony, and free you up so you wouldn't have to miss your appointment.

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toomuchcoffeelady

Ditto Mahogany, and add a letter from your doc saying you're a cancer survivor who needs a procedure. Misleading, sure, but nobody's lying.
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I agree w/everyone else, you and your baby dreams need to come before work and court cases.

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And people question why I can't just "be happy with your career and be grateful for what you DO have."

PCOS, IR, and Hyperinsulemia, also investigating adrenal, pituitary, and thyroid.

H also has some MF that's having us pursue IUI.

Clomid was a big fat failure. Researching both IUI and adoption from another agency & country.

HOLLAND

LOL....I had never thought about doing that. Cancer survivor trying to get pregnant
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Now...I was thinking. This subpoena was taped to my front door so do I really need to show up for it?

I'm leaning more towards going ahead with the IUI. Things are just so stressful at my job but I feel like they just need to get over it!

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MahoganyJazz

I'd call the DA, and tell them the situation. They'll be able to give you more information about it. I think submitting a letter with your testimony should be sufficient enough.

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HOLLAND

Chasitie - Thanks so much! I'll have to try that.

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MahoganyJazz

No problem, I had to go through something similar a few months ago. I didn't feel like it was worth my time or trouble sitting in court for God knows how long, just to talk to the DA for 2 minutes. Someone stole my car tag, and they finally caught the guy, I didn't care what they charged him with, I just wanted my money back that I spent replacing it and for the police report I had to buy to get a new tag.

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mcoreen

If your heart is telling you to do the IUI do the IUI. Inform the court that you have a medical appointment you can't miss or reschedule if they happen to fall on the same date. They shouldn't need to know what the appt is for - the same goes for your work. It should be a confidentiality issue... Your doc can give you a slip if you need proof. IUI's have to be done with proper timing so it really is an appt you can't miss, especially if you've been taking anything at all to help with your cycles.

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HOLLAND

Thankfully my IUI fell on Sunday the 27th which meant I was able to go to court on Monday. The girl never showed up so she was found guilty of Impeding Traffic and fined for not showing up. I'm so gald that's over with!

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3 IUI'S A BUST
IUI on 7-27 BFN
Next cycle Clomid 100mgs CD 4-8 with IUI

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Hezzer

Glad to hear it all worked out!
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