I realize that this wont appeal to everyone, but I just wanted to mention it because it certainly helps make me feel more feminine. I have a pierced belly button and you can get nice jewelry that dangles down (like a dangly earring for the belly) and covers the hair (if you've got the trail).
Here's an example of what they look like but of course there are all different styles, I just have a plain silver one with diamontes at the moment:
Just a suggestion. It certainly helps me.
