CathyWood

So far my parents and there friend is against a D & C...so I wished when we got out last night I hadn't told them about it. There friend says well you know they said this about my last one and she is 35 now...or whatever I say she says that. BUT I am different.

So all of you have supported me really well and dh too. I can't wait for the beta to come in to confirm what is going on.

Have a good day gals.

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HSG Nov 2004
Brandon Aug 8, 2005

alaskangrown

Cathy-

I am so, so sorry.... I know that there are no words that can help but your family will be in my prayers ***hugs***

Misty

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packerfan

Cathy,

I hope this doesn't scare you, but I'll be honest about my experience.....

You need to do what is best for you. I had a natural m/c and it was awful. I had to think about flushing a baby, that had a heartbeat a week before, down the toilet. In my opinion, I think a D&C would be a little better emotionally. Although having a natural m/c at home was better for privacy sake.

If you want the D&C (if need be), then that is what you should do.

As for your family friend that pointed out her situation with her daughter, things were much different 35 years ago. I think doctors were wrong more often about these things, since they didn't have the tests we have today. Don't let them guilt you into feeling worse than you already do.

I hope you get a miracle, but we are here for you if need be.

You are in my prayers,

Kim

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Me: 37
DH: 36
m/c 12/02, 12/04
DS: 02/03/04--33w1d
DS: 10/31/05--39w2d
DD: 03/09/08--37w0d

WILLS

DEAR CATHY I AND MY DEAR HUBBY WENT THROUGH A D & C ON THE 21st OCTOBER 2003 AS THE BABY HAD JUST NOT GROWN I WAS 8 WEEK AND 4DAYS I WAS HEART BROKEN BUT YOU HAVE TO DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOURSELF AND DH, I FELT I COULD NOT WAIT AND FLUSH MY BAY DOWN A PAN IT WAS NOT DIGNIFIED FOR THE BABY
YOU HAVE TO DO WHAT YOU FEEL AND NOT TO WORRY ABOUT COMMENTS WHAT PEOPLE SAY AS THEY ARE NOT FEELING WHAT YOU ARE AT THE PRESENT
I AM REALLY THINKING ABOUT YOU AND YOU LOVED ONE WHO YOU WILL NEED MY HEART IS WITH YOU

LOVE WILMA AND DH ALLISTAIR