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Old 10-29-2003, 09:25 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Things don't look good

I had an ultrasound and blood work today. I will be 7 weeks tomorrow, but the ultrasound showed that the baby is measuring at 6w2d. There was even a faint heart beat and fetal pole. I wasn't terribly worried until the nurse just called to tell me that my hCG levels only went up slightly since last week. She said that it looks like it is "not a healthy pregnancy." I have to go back on Monday for another ultrasound and labs, but I guess I need to prepare myself for the worst. It is just hard to know this after seeing the heartbeat today.
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Default So very sorry

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Oh Sweetie, I went through the same thing about 6 wks ago. Unfortunately mine ended in m/c. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. PM me if you would like to talk.

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I wanted to send ((((Hugs))) and best wishes for tomorrow. Please let us know what happens.
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Thank you all so much for your support. Unfortunately, I did not have good news today. I saw the baby, but there was no heartbeat. They took loads of bloodwork, and are going to call me this afternoon. I haven't had any bleeding or anything, so I suspect that they are going to send me for a D&C. I will take the next few days off from work. This has been very hard.
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I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. I had a m/c about a month ago and I know what you are going through. I will be keeping you in my prayers.

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Thanks very much for the support. I have been having my good moments and bad moments. The doctor wants to see me on Weds. We will decide then if I am going to wait this out, or go ahead with the D & C. The hardest part is that the hCG levels went up a little bit since last Weds. and I saw the poor little baby on the screen today. It looked very peaceful there. I can't get that image out of my mind. I ended up going to the local Hallmark and bought a little angel Christmas tree ornament. I will hang it on my Christmas tree each year and think of my little angel. Sorry if I am getting overly emotional here. Must be the hormones.
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im so sorry u have to go through this as i know it isnt easy as i had MC oct.13...we had also seen the heartbeat twice and everything looked fine and i was 12 weeks 3 days!!!

if u ever need someone to talk to PM me or email me ok!

the TTC after a loss thread is very helpful too !

take care and god bless!!
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Default Many hugs Katia

I've been there myself and I'm so sorry you are having to experience such a terrible loss. There isn't anything I can say to make it less painful, but know that one more person is sharing your burden - hopefully that will lighten it just a little.

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Many, many hugs and much love going out to you. Be gentle w/ yourself and know that we are here if you wish to talk.

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My deepest heartfelt sympathy for you.

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Oh Katia, I'm so sorry! My prayers are with you!
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