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Old 08-24-2004, 05:49 AM   #1 (permalink)
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My Dh & i have just endured our third miscarriage i am a first time cyster long time reader/ just wanted to know if anyone out there has had three or more & still found the strength to keep trying,& succeed!!!!
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Old 08-24-2004, 02:51 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Unfortunately there are many of us with multiple losses of one kind or another. It is heartbreaking, and I am very sad for you right now. I think that the drive to have a living child is strong enough that it overpowers the sadness and fear for most of us. Either that, or we conceive again during our grief and get a surprise.

Of course it would be great to figure out why this keeps happening and then prepare to prevent it from happening another time, and some do. Is there any possibility of that in your case?

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Old 08-24-2004, 09:30 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I too have had 3 m/c's & am about to go into the 2ww for the 4th follistim cycle so we did try again. I got all the RPL (Repeat Pg Loss) testing & it all came back normal. My RE basically said it could have been "bad luck" & we decided that we'd try 1 more time.

I would definately get some RPL testing to rule out anything possibly wrong.

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Old 08-27-2004, 01:04 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I got my RPL results back today and i have Antiphospholipid Syndrome
Antibicordiolipun Antibodies My blood is prone to clotting i think Has any one else heard or has this syndrome?
At least they have some sort of reason i guess but it's not too comforting Thank-you for your advice hopefully next time a better outcome!!!
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Old 08-27-2004, 01:46 PM   #5 (permalink)
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So sorry to hear of your loss. I have had 2 m/c - I am currently in my 2ww still TTC #1

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Well, I'm glad you got some testing done and can work on that particular problem for next time if you go for it. You might want to ask in the pregnancy or mommy forums for experiences with this also, as there is more volume there. I would probably google that name and check out specific sites about it.
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Usually if it's a "mild" case then 1 baby aspirin a day will help. Sometimes a baby aspirin/day & shots of (can't remember the name right now...) while pg will greatly help & many women have had successful pg's after this treatment.

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I am so sorry for your losses. I think the name of the shots Traci was thinking of was Heparin. I'm sure the ladies on the mommy board can help you with more info on this.

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