Well tomorrow the lady from our foster license agency is coming out! I'm pretty excited because she said she might be able to have us licensed in a month! So please keep up in your prayers! And wish us luck!
Keeping you in my prayers. Please give us an update tomorrow if you can!
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Oct 09 - Femara 5mgs Days 3-7 BFN
Nov 09 - Femara 5mgs Days 3-7 BFN
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I thought it went well.. until she called on Friday and said that our adoption agency didnt refer us to them, and that since the adoption agency isn't done they will not move foward with us until they get the OK.
Well for starters she really made me feel like a liar by saying that the adoption agency didnt refer us, they referred early, but that was their plan. They figured a month before we got the first visit from our foster license agency which it was but the case worker from the adoption agency is just starting on our homestudy write up! I'm quite furious about that. I told her I have an email with the referral information telling me to call her etc.
So yet again another bump in the road. We have really thought about giving up! I'm tired of people picking my life apart. And in so many words this foster agency has told us that we are not good enough! When were told that our choice of church is not a good one, and when we're told we spend too much time with family and not enough time at church! When we're told we don't have a strong support (family friends etc). We dont make it to church every week, we spend every weekend with family.... our friends and family totally support us and are thrilled and ready to help in any way!
In this world there are people who do horrible things to children, there are drug adicts alchol abusers that have children every day, there are people who abuse mentally physically emotionally, who neglect etc... we are a couple who loves children who would never do any of the above... and we are critized and torned apart, pushed to the limits... why? We are good people and no two people are exactly the same! Sorry we dont fit inside their little box, but we are good people who want a family! Who want to take in some of these children who have been put thru the problems above. Yet we are the ones who are not good enough!
We are only doing this once... we will not go thru it again! We want more than one child but if we only have one then so be it!
I'm sorry about the rude SW! Can you find another SW/agency? If so, I would immediately find a new one b/c you are going to get to know them very well & if you don't get along it will be very difficult. I know we hit some bumps in the road during our paperchase & HS that were hard to deal with but we got through it & now we're just waiting. There were times that I felt like giving up so I know how that is.
Traci
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ugh..it gets irritating.... my mamaw used to have a good saying..something like a bumpy road leads to greater goal..or a gate of gold...grr...i cant remember but it was sweet and you get the idea..best of luck
btw...WOW ..congrats on the weight loss...
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Bertiebugg, I hope you get your baby you have been waiting so long for. Im sorry you have to go through this. I hope it happens soon for you.
Congrats on your weight loss!
What are you doing to loose the weight?
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I was approved on 8/4/09 for RNY! Surgery Date is 9/22/09
Tomorrow! 
