One of the things that really bothers me when I think about my lost babies is wondering if they know how much I love them and how much I wanted them. I worry that they are OK after passing away, if they are happy, etc.
My DD (2.5 years) frequently talks about "The Lady" - this is someone who only she can see who sometimes appears in her dreams, sometimes in the house...I have always assumed it is her guardian angel. Well, DD woke up from her nap the other day, the day after my D&C, and said (completely out of the blue) "Mama, the Lady says that all of the tiny babies love you so much". I couldn't believe it. We told her that the tiny baby in my tummy had died, but she knew nothing about the other losses. She also insists that the Lady told her that another tiny baby is coming, that she will still get to be a big sister and that mama needs to "just be happy" and the baby will come. Maybe it's all fantasy, but I tend to believe she is getting a message from the other side. It has given me so much comfort to know that all of my babies love me and there is still a chance for another child.
__________________ Me 43 & DH 41 (my hunky triathlete!)
Mama to 4 angels (1/04, 4/05, 8/05, 9/08) and 1 miracle!
2 half marathons completed; training for my first full!
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
I think this is a beautiful story and thank you for sharing. As someone who believes in spirits, I also believe that children are the most receptive to them and often see things we do not. Children are far more intutitive than we give them credit for.
Good luck with your journey.
__________________ Jo - 28|DH - 35
There's no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one.
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. He's here! To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
THOMAS JOHN ROBERT ARDEN
July 30, 2009 - 9lbs 5oz
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
I know when I was pg with my second son I had a dream that my first son came to me and let me hold him, and count his fingers and toes and feed him. He just looked at me and smiled. And then he told me it was time for him to go. When I woke up I had leaked colostrum all of the bed. But it was the most peace that I had felt in a very long time!!
__________________ Adrianne (30) & Alton (35) To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
DSD (11) & DSS (9)
Alton "Tre' " Bernard III 22w0d: 01/12/08 - 01/12/08
Walter Renoid 19w5d: 07/03/08 - 07/03/08
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Thanks for sharing, that was a really beautiful story. I too believe that dreams and visions more often come to younger children-- in my belief this is because they are still close to God.
I had a dream after I lost my second baby last year to m/c at 9 weeks that I got to see exactly how she woud have looked. It was very comforting and made her very real to me. It's like I now know who I can look forward to meeting in heaven.
That is such a beautiful experience. I also think that children are closer to the other side. Thanks for sharing.
__________________ Cara
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
DS#1 (10) BFP naturally
Twin angels To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. BFP w/ yeast control, m/c @ 9w d/t low prog.
DS#2 (5) BFP w/ candida control
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. (1.5) BFP w/ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
TTC #4 with To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
6/3/09 BFP 10DPO beta 76, p4 20.1
13DPO beta 627, p4 21.6
17DPO Beta 3379
7w2d U/S To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. x1, p4 18
11/17 U/S= it's a GIRL
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
That Is A Wonderful Story. I Too Believe Children Know More About Things Than Grown Ups Do. Because They Are Pure At Heart. I Had A Dream That My Baby Came To Me One Night. But, She Was Not A Baby Anymore. She Was At Least 4 To 5 Years Old And I Saw Her Sitting On My Grandmothers Lap. It Was Very Comforting. Again, Thanks For Sharing
What a fantastic story, so inpiring. I had dream when I lost this baby about 3 days before I found out there was no h/b that I held my tiny baby in the palm of my hand, but there was another baby with it. I had another sac in with the sac with this baby but there was never anything in it they suspected vanishing twin but were never certain. So I think there was.
That's a really sweet story...thanks for sharing and I hope it's true
__________________ ttc 3.5 years Me-PCOS Hubby-Male Factor IVF#1 BFP, misc To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
FET#1 BFN FET#2 BFN IUI#1 (with donor) Clomid, cycle canc. IUI#2 Gonal F-BFN IUI#3 Gonal F-BFN HSG - All Clear! IUI#4 Gonal F - BFN No Longer TTC
Hoping to start our Home Study soon - Going the Private Domestic route. 3 Fur Babies, that I couldn't live without To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
A true story I wanted to share 
