Once is bad enough, twice in 6 months, WHY does God feel he needs MY babies??
I am so very thankful for my 2 kids, don't get me wrong, but is it so bad to want a third? To want one more newborn in my house??
3 day ago I was SO excited to have my first ob appt, I never made it this far with my last pregnancy. I was excited to hit 9 wks, it meant only 3 more weeks until the first tri was over, until I could stop worrying so much, stop taking handful's of pills and ENJOY the rest of my pregnancy.
Now, it's 3 days later. I'm left with an empty stomach, deflated and flabby, and an aching heart and tears that won't stop flowing.
I just don't get it....and no-one seems to understand. I get the "it wasn't meant to be" comments, or the "you should be happy with the two you have", "it's in a better place now" or some other stupid crap. That doesn't help!! Don't you GET IT?? It doesn't ease the hurt!! It doesn't stop the tears!! It doesn't cancel the WANT for another baby!!!
Gaah....I really just needed to vent, somewhere someone "might" possibly understand a little bit better. I'm sorry.
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danibell~ I'm sorry to hear of your loss. ((Hugs)) People make the most OBNOXIOUS and RUDE comments after a m/c! Of course you are hurting....having other children does not mean that this child wasn't wanted. Vent all you want here, I have and it does feel better knowing I'm surrounded by others who understand. I'm hear to listen and I know there are others listening too.
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I am so sorry!!! I am TTC our first baby and I had a M/C about 1 year ago. It was horrible. We were so excited. Some people just don't understand. My favorite one was "Everything happens for a reason" and this is probably true but when you are hurting over your lost baby that you tried so hard to get this does not help and people who conceive at the drop of a hat do not understand what we have to go through. I am praying for you and I hope you get lots of baby dust this year!!!!
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I am so sorry for your hurting. If there is one thing all of us girls here have experienced it's the dumba$$ comments people make. They don't mean to be stupid or cruel but you can't really understand it if you haven't been through it. I hope you feel better soon.
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BFP 12/18/07-m/c Jan 08' BFP 04/06/08-2nd m/c April 08' BFP 10/15/08- 3rd m/c Jan 09' @15 weeks onto recurrent pregnancy loss testing...
BFP 07/26/09-surprise natural BFP
IT'S A GIRL!
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Dani - I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I get those same comments all the time and they don't make it better, they make it worse. Take some time for yourself and get the hurt out, you have every right.
I am so sorry you have had another loss. I myself had 3 losses in a year which is nearly as bad - I understand the pain. The terror of another, even worse loss was one thing that fed into my decision to reduce - THAT'S how crazy it can make you... it's just horrible, horrible to keep getting your hopes up and then losing the baby yet again.
Yes you should be grateful for your children but if you want/need one more there is just no denying that desire. There's no way around it and it can drive you crazy I know.
I hope you can take some time to heal and move past this... let your body get over it... and I hope you have better success next cycle. Good luck to you! And again, I am sorry. I know how it hurts.
Twice in 6 months... 
