Lnamreep

Okay, three miscarriages have been difficult on me. In June I finally got to 8 weeks, but then got so sick the baby lost the hearbeat.

My mom stops by today to tell me my irresponsible brother who is 22yrs old has had an oops and his quasi girlfriend is pregnant.

My mom has known for awhile but I was so sick during my last pregnancy and a month or so still trying to recover that she did not want to tell me then.

Of course I cried, because it seems unfair. I mean it is so difficult for me to get pregnant, carry to term, and then not to mention the various restrictions to adoption if I go that right.

I am seriously depressed and again feel like a failure. Maybe if I had an exceptional job, I would feel better. It just seems like career wise I am treading water and that would be fine if at least I had a family............Seriously depressed.

(on a 6mo break from TTC per Liver Dr and OB-but even then it will be a crap shoot once again. Have had all the tests and still no reason why this should keep occuring)

Sorry for the rant, but at least I have quite crying!

knighad

Don't give up. I know it's incredibly depressing and frustrating at times, but it very likely will get better. There are tons of girls who go through so much and end up with a baby in the end. And you'll love that baby even more because of all of this. I'm so sorry for everything you're going through, but know that you're not alone!

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TTC since 06/08. Dx: 10/08- thin PCOS
Me: 29 DH: 29

Tried metformin, clomid, ovarian drilling, varicocele repair, IUI's, HcG trigger. Got pregnant while "on a break"

9/15- BFP!!!! HCG= 647, P4= 21.7
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9/17- HCG= 1,823 (Tripled!!!)
9/28- 1st u/s: no fetal pole
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10/2- 2nd u/s: no fetal pole (schedule d&c)

silverboot

I can sorta relate... it seems that everyone is getting pregnant around you or you notice all pregnant women or kids everywhere. I'm just dealing with my first loss, so all I can tell you is I'm feeling a part of your pain. But, time heals all. Don't give up and keep praying.

It's a shame it happens to women who really want children, but, eventually you will become pregnant and keep it full term. And that child will be lucky to have a mom that really wanted to have a baby.

I send you good vibes

tammy25

I am in the same boat as you my twin brother and is young girlfriend our expecting she just graduated i lost our baby in jan i was 5.5 months so it was rough then to find out a few months later that he is pregnant sucked she is so young and my brother is not ready for this keep your head up we will eventually be mothers
Tammy