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Old 01-21-2005, 11:53 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Yesterday my husband comes in and has this envelope in his hand. I'm like what's that, he hands it to me and I turned it over and seen her name on it. I handed it right back to him and said i can't open it. I was in shock. This is the first time we've heard from her since all the mess we had with the family before. She hadn't even seen a picture of her since she 3-4 months old. And this was the first letter EVER from her.

My DH opened it and he started reading the letter and included were pictures. She said that my daughter had a sister. sHe got preggers about 5-6 months after the birth of my daughter. She is ingaged to be married this summer and isn't traveling anymore.
The baby is cute. I'm happy for her.

I couldn't take it so I called her last night and talked to her for over a hour. I explained to her why I felt the way that I did and I explained all the stuff her father put us thru and told her he is a sick sick man. She said she hadn't spoke or seen him in over a year and I was so happy to hear that. I think it's best that way.

I told her I was going to send her daughter a few things of Desi's. She needs it. She was happy.

I also went thru pictures last night and am going to send her a lot of pictures her in a few days.
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Old 01-22-2005, 12:03 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Hey Lisa, i haven't talked to you in forever! i'm so glad that the BM is not going to trouble you like the BF. what a jerk. so do you think you will keep in touch now? how is Destiny? she is so cute. e-mail me when you can. oh yea..how did she get your new address?

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i am so glad you are able to have a relationship with her after all the bf put you through. I hope i would be able to do the same. i also agree, we need new pictures of Desi!
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I would be scared to have the BM contact me, I can only imagine how you must've felt.

I'm glad things are going well.
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I am so glad that you and the BM got a chance to chat. I hope it helped ease your mind some!!! ((((HUGS))))
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Lisa !!

Glad it went well and that she is happy and that you are happy with the outcome...

How is wee Destiny ? We havent had an update in a looooong time !


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Thanks for the replies I posted some pictures of her

Stefie-she mailed them to our old address and then they were forwarded to us. I can't find your email address girl. Do you still have mine. I hope your doing okay. It's been so long since I've got to email you. I miss ya. My computer was wiped out so I lost everything. If you can email me, please do! ((Hugs))
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