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11-09-2006, 10:21 PM
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| | cyster in need of hope
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It breaks my heart that I have to write this 
This is an early loss but our first and I am unsure what to expect. I am opting to let my body do this naturally and the bleeding started today but is not full force. Will I be able to do this without medical intervention? I would like to be able to greive in peace and not be under the eyes of everyone at the drs office.
And I guess a more personal question, how do you go on? We have dreamed of this for so long that I just can't put into words what this has done to us. I just need to know that at some point it will get better because right now I feel so lost and hopeless.
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11-09-2006, 10:50 PM
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| | Missing My Sweet Angel's
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Sorry for your loss sweetie, its never easy to go through. ***HUGS***
I lost my baby back in May, and I am still having a hard time dealing with it. It does get tolerable as the days/weeks/months go on.... but it never gets completely better.
I will keep you in my prayers, God Bless
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On a TTC break... Goal: Lose weight!
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11-10-2006, 12:07 AM
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| | Trying for #2!!
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I am soo sorry sweetie, I lost my first pregnacy in september, it is very hard to deal with but you have to go on I can only say that from experience that it does get easier... you will always remember you little angel baby in your heart but I does get easier to cope with.... I was 5 and half weeks when I miscarried. I did it naturally as I had begun to spot and eventually bleed. I found that it was easier to do it naturally. If you need to talk feel free to PM me, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
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11-10-2006, 10:40 AM
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| | Registered User
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I am so sorry. A loss is something only someone experienceing can understand. I had D/C in September and I have good and bad days, last week my calendar said I should have been finding out the sex of the baby. I try to stay really busy and not let my mind get to preoccupied.
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11-10-2006, 12:14 PM
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Sorry for your lose. We lost our first in April at 6 weeks and my doctor didnt give me the option, so I did it at home on my own. It was very painful for me but everyone is different. We just lost our second one last week and I was 10 1/2 weeks. My new doctor told me since I was so far along that it could take up to a month to pass everything on my own, also my cervix was still closed. Anyway I had a D&C on Nov. 1 and I was back at work on Monday this week. I think that the D&C was easier for me but its your choice. I do I have to say that it was very weird going to the hospital to have my baby taken from me. From what my husband and the nurse said, when I was waking up I pretty much was freaking out. I hope everything works out for the best.
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Married 08-21-04 1st pg lost 4-12-06 @ 6 weeks Baby Hudson 2nd pg lost 11-01-06 @ 11 weeks, Arin Hudson 4 furbabies- 3 cats and 1 very spoiled dog. BFP 9-28-07 Due June 11, 2008 Its a GIRL To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. | |
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11-10-2006, 12:23 PM
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| | Soon to be Mom to 2!
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Unfortunately we all know how you feel here. It feels unbearable.. and this time is such a time of confusion and yearning for answers. It does seem impossible to go on, but time eases the pain. Please feel free to pm me if you need anything at all. | |
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11-10-2006, 04:17 PM
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Brandy-my heart goes out to you. I lost my second pregnancy in July. First m/c was at 8 weeks and second at 5 weeks. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think of my little angels. Some days are harder than others but eventually the heartache will become bearable.
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11-11-2006, 12:33 AM
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| | ...zzz...zzz...zzz...
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I am sorry for your loss.
You asked "how do I go on"? There's no easy answer. There's also no right or wrong answers. You just find a way and you just do it. Some days you are a zombie and just want to be away from everyone. Other days you don't want to be alone. Some people will help you and some, unfortunately, may make things worse. It's OK to seek support WHEREVER you can get it - and it may not always be from your family. (In my case, my co-workers were all very helpful...a lot of them had had losses as well.) One day, you may find yourself smiling and laughing unexpectedly. You'll be surprised at first..and then realize that somehow, things got better, if only for a little while.  to you on this difficult journey. You are not alone. | |
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11-12-2006, 08:15 AM
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I am sorry for your lose I lost me little dream on sep 13th 2006 so two months ago on monday I know it hurts really hurts I am still dealing with it at first I cryed all the time and now I dont but it still hurts you just learn how to deal I guess but no matter what you will not forget you just have to to strong and if you cant for yourself then be with someone that can be strong for you that is what worked for me if you need anyone to talk to the please let me know am IM me JEZLYN2088@yahoo .com
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11-12-2006, 09:23 AM
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| | We have done it. Yay!!!!!
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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss Brandy. I have been fortunate enough to not go through the trauma of loosing a baby so I won't say that I know how you feel. Its for sure that I will never know your pain but just wanted to say that I'm here if you need to talk. Sorry once again. I really hope you get the strength to cope this loss.
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11-12-2006, 12:21 PM
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| | pattijo
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Brandy,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I didn't know until I read this thread. I'm really sorry, my heart goes out to you. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of yourself, Brandy. I know this isn't easy for you and your hubby, you will get through this and be a stronger person. It's not fair that you have to go through this, but each day will be hard for awhile. Just take this one day at a time. Take the time you need to heal.
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