I just don't even know what to do. I feel so lost. I feel like I can't breathe. We had ultra sounds at 6 weeks and 8 weeks and had nice strong heartbeats both times. We went in yesterday for another u/s at 10w 5d and there was no movement, no heart beat. The baby stopped growing at 8w5d, just a few days after the last u/s. What could have possible happened in those few days?
We went in all excited. There was absolutely no indication that anything was wrong. We were totally blind sided.
The OB said that since my body doesn't even know yet, it could take up to 3-4 weeks to naturally miscarry, so we are going in on Tuesday for a D&C.
I just can't get the image out of my head. My sweet little baby lying there not moving. Every time I close my eyes it is there.
Thanks for listening.
Sharon
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Sofia Rose 7/20/04 conceived after 2nd IUI
11/20 and 11/21 last chance (5th) IUI
12/5/07 - BFP EDD: 8/11/08
1/18/08 - we lost our baby - feeling lost, sad and confused
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Me 31 / DH 28 Married to my Dutch Boy since 12/23/2000 Cancer Survivor - Leukemia Gloucophage XR,Synthroid,Zoloft,Prenatal TTC Since 5/2004 3 IUI'S A BUST Clomid 100mgs IUI 10/27/08 BFP "I'm going to be a Mommy" Beta 15DPO -108, 17DPO - 331 1st ultrasound 12/1 - strong heartbeat 2nd ultrasound 1/5 - Heartbeat 162 IT'S A BOY!!!!! EDD 7/19/2009
Luca Allen Maarten
Born 6/28/09
5lbs 15ozs 18inches
I am so sorry you had to go through this. This was exactly what happened to me with my first mc was, they called it a missed miscarriage. I know nothing I say can comfort you at this moment but please know we are here for you and that many here (unfortunately) empathise with you.
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Sharon~ (((HUGS))) I'm so so sorry. I had read about you on the IVF thread getting your BFP after changing from IVF to IUI. Hun, I'm just heartbroken for you. Please take care of yourself right now and know many thoughts and prayers are coming your way.
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Angels: 1/08 (IUI), 11/08 (IVF)
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DD born 8/11/09
Our miracle survived preeclampsia, IUGR and placenta problems!!!
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The baby stopped growing at 8w5d, just a few days after the last u/s. What could have possible happened in those few days?
Sharon,
I am so sorry for your loss. ((HUGS))
I also had a missed m/c at 9 weeks, found out at 14 weeks. I think it was because my CL stopped producing enough progesterone shortly before the m/c.
Did you doc check your progesterone levels, or were you taking progesterone?
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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DS#1 (10) BFP naturally
Twin angels To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. BFP w/ yeast control, m/c @ 9w d/t low prog.
DS#2 (5) BFP w/ candida control
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6/3/09 BFP 10DPO beta 76, p4 20.1
13DPO beta 627, p4 21.6
17DPO Beta 3379
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11/17 U/S= it's a GIRL
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So sorry for your loss. I'm keeping you in my thoughts.
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TTC since 1/18/08
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HPT 3/30/08 - BFN
HPT 5/8/08 - BFN
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We lost our baby 
noooooo...
