O.K. girls....The invite to the bachelor party finally arrived. He's not going, but at least it came only 3 days before the RSVP is due. I think we have decided that we will make a chartiable contribution in their honor instead of a "cash" donation to their wedding.

Thanks to all of you for yoru good ideas, I ran them by my DB and he laughed and laughed.
He's nervous about them splitting up the group at different tables at the reception. He thinks this will happen to keep all of us in check. (WE do like to have a good time) In that case he's decided not to stay for the reception and we will leave. I am all for not going at all and instead taking the advice and throwing a Sayounara Suckers BBQ at the Lake for all of us instead...sounds like a lot of fun. Plus we can ask for a donation for their "gift registry" we are thinking the American Cancer Society!
Thanks Cysters!!!!