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Old 04-20-2005, 11:03 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Question what to do

As some of you may have seen from my other posting i lost my son nicholas this past dec. Nicholas was born on dec 6th and last only 36 hr after he was born. but the reason i had him so early was because my water bag had broke at 16 weeks so he lived with no water for eight weeks. so now i will get to my question, I went to see my endo. this past week and i asked him to do the rpl testing on me. he said he is going to do the testing and that he would like me and my husband to start trying as soon as possible. my husband and I have talk about trying again and we both think that we are readyfor anything. but i had nicholas by c-section and my regular ob told us not to try again for a year! so does anyone have any imput on this subject. thanks alot
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Old 04-21-2005, 01:12 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I've heard that after a c section a mom should wait a year, but that is one opinion. Others might have different opinions on it. Follow your heart on this.
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Old 04-21-2005, 12:02 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Murphys109...have you tried posting on the mommy board to moms who have had c-sections...to ask if they were told to wait a year before TTCing again...

I have just gone through the RPL testing process myself and can answer any questions you might have, or give you links to check out if you are interested. You are lucky to be in the Chicago area; Dr. Carolyn Coulam is supposedly one of the best doctors in the country for RPL and immunology issues. Check out www.haveababy.com and the "Chicago - RPL" link for starters.

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Old 04-21-2005, 01:20 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I had a c-section and wasn't told that............had to wait 8 weeks for nooky, but they never said anything about waiting to have any more kiddos.......
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Old 04-21-2005, 01:23 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I just did a search on babyzone.com and they recommend waiting 6 months...
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Old 04-21-2005, 03:59 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Sorry I can't help. I do know that if you're not ready yet, you shouldn't get pregnant again.
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