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04-20-2005, 11:03 PM
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| | nicksmom
Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: chicago
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Points: 296.00 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 296.00 | what to do As some of you may have seen from my other posting i lost my son nicholas this past dec. Nicholas was born on dec 6th and last only 36 hr after he was born. but the reason i had him so early was because my water bag had broke at 16 weeks so he lived with no water for eight weeks. so now i will get to my question, I went to see my endo. this past week and i asked him to do the rpl testing on me. he said he is going to do the testing and that he would like me and my husband to start trying as soon as possible. my husband and I have talk about trying again and we both think that we are readyfor anything. but i had nicholas by c-section and my regular ob told us not to try again for a year! so does anyone have any imput on this subject. thanks alot
lisa 25 , dh29
1st m/c 1-02
2nd M/c 1-04
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04-21-2005, 01:12 AM
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| | Sad and Happy Mom
Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Kansas City, MO Looking for local buddies!
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Points: 91,517.82 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 91,517.82 | I've heard that after a c section a mom should wait a year, but that is one opinion. Others might have different opinions on it. Follow your heart on this.
Hugs,
Sheri
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Metformin 1500mg since 10/02, Yasmin since 4/06, managing IR/pcos with lower carbs
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Second loss March 9, 2004 at five weeks
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04-21-2005, 12:02 PM
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| | ...zzz...zzz...zzz...
Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: A house that is missing its cat. ***sniff sniff***
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My Mood: Points: 13,108.46 Bank: 12,041.38 Total Points: 25,149.84 | Murphys109...have you tried posting on the mommy board to moms who have had c-sections...to ask if they were told to wait a year before TTCing again...
I have just gone through the RPL testing process myself and can answer any questions you might have, or give you links to check out if you are interested. You are lucky to be in the Chicago area; Dr. Carolyn Coulam is supposedly one of the best doctors in the country for RPL and immunology issues. Check out www.haveababy.com and the "Chicago - RPL" link for starters.
I am SO sorry for your losses.
__________________ Lean cyster ~ M/c @ 10 wks after seeing heartbeat 8/04, 2 chemical PGs lost @ 4.5 wks 1/05 & 3/05. 4/05: Dx w/antiphospholipid antibody syndrome.
DS 1/06 after 3 m/c's, APS, chorioamnionitis & a cord knot. DD 12/07 after APS & a funky seizure 4 days before birth.
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04-21-2005, 01:20 PM
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| | out of town 7/31-8/4 :)
Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Kansas
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Points: 27,431.35 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 27,431.35 | I had a c-section and wasn't told that............had to wait 8 weeks for nooky, but they never said anything about waiting to have any more kiddos.......
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Dropping out of TTC... To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. good vibes to you girls! To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
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04-21-2005, 01:23 PM
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| | out of town 7/31-8/4 :)
Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Kansas
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Points: 27,431.35 Bank: 0.00 Total Points: 27,431.35 | I just did a search on babyzone.com and they recommend waiting 6 months...
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Dropping out of TTC... To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. good vibes to you girls! To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
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04-21-2005, 03:59 PM
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| | Missing Rivelino forever
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