Kathy2579

I am posting under her name because I don't have an account. My wife and I have had some problems with PCOS. This has left us with 4 misscarages and also her demanding intercourse on those 3-4 special days at special times each months. Don't get me wrong I like the attention but .....

All she has ever wanted scince she was very very little was to have a baby. All her friends say that as well as family. She reads more books and websites everyday about what to do and how to do it.

I just want to reasure her that sometimes just letting things take there course and it will happen when the powers at be want it to happen.
I know this is long I am sorry, but do you have any ideas what I or We can do. I am sure she will see this later but at least she will know I love her and do know some of what she is going through (after reading the board)

Thank you... Tired Husband

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TracyW2

HUGS

Have you guys been to see a RE yet? And have you had testing for the repeat M/C? If you answered now, I would definately start there. And also have you had a sperm analysis done? That is very important.

We went through the same thing and it put a strain on our marriage.

good luck.

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biker_jt

good luck and my wife and myself are starting to have to look into the same thing, the other thing to consider is invertro if you are open to it.

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Hayles

I 2nd what tracy said.... it seems u guys can get pregnant...so i would deff start with repeat pregnancy loss testingit saved our lil boy & hopefully this one.........
infertility takes over!! it has an uncanny knack of doing that..if u are tired of it all maybe u could suggest a break to your wife? or jump in barrels & all & do everything within ur power all the testing that can be done to see if there is an underlying cause for the miscarriages etc etc & then if that dnt pan out say u cant do it anymore!
I'm sure it's breaking both of ur hearts infertility aint easy on any of us & sometiems us women tend to forget that it affects u guys too GOOD LUCK

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deedlebug06

Have you talked to a counselor about this at all. Maybe that would help. I think it's wonderful that you are here seeking ways to support her.

Honestly thought when you are dealing with infertility it can take up every moment of your day. It seems there are constant reminders that everyone else can get pg and you can't. I think the constant worrying, thinking, trying is normal.

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