Ok I have been married for almost 2 years but have been with husband for 4 years. When DH and I were dating I didn't have this problem but now I do. The problem is that I don't get wet (TMI) sorry! What should I do? I mean we have used lubricants but I don't like them because they get sticky. HELP!!
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Umm I have that problem I have to use Private Reserve it is the closest thing to your natural "juices" as you can get. ( FUN Party Products) But before then it took a lot of warming with some Adult video watching or use of another product called Chinese Nympho (reference above Product) that you rub on your clit and the herbs in it make you umm very moist.
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I have this problem as well. I thought it was a mental thing. I feel so sorry for my boyfriend sometimes because it takes a LONG time sometimes to get anything to work with. I cant understand it because I am in the mood but I must not have paid the water bill if you know what I mean. We end up having to have at least a half hour of foreplay. Forme anticipation helps. If we mess around for a while but dont actually touch the "private" areas it starts enough to work with..... Sorry if that was TMI
I cant understand it because I am in the mood but I must not have paid the water bill if you know what I mean.
Seriously, that was the funniest thing I've heard all day!
I can get started. Then its like the faucet has been cut off. Nothing. It just disappears. DH is like um what happened. I dont know. Its just gone.
We use and like Astroglide. Not sticky like KY. I hate that stuff. I've never tried anything other than those. As far as not liking to use them, sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do.
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Gun Oil is good... It stays slick forever! It's a little pricey but a tiny dab will do ya... We get it & the local "toy" store.... It won't get sticky... After a long time it will just go away... Also, IMO the less hair the better!
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Oh yeah I dont do hair. It irritates the ever living crap out of me.
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I recommend Pjur lubricants. They stay 'wet' for a long time and do not get sticky. I got mine at Hustler. It is a little pricey compared to other lubricants, but worth it! It goes a long way...a little dab will do ya!
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OMG I thought I was the only one with this problem......Ladies thank you so much for the info. This Saturday I'm going to a pleasure party so I will see what they have there, I feel so much better that some sisters can come out and be straight about things like this.
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I always have this problem when we use condoms. For some reason they dry me right up. We don't need them for preventing kids, we just started using the extended pleasure ones to make it last longer. I have him take it off when I've had enough and want him to finish up. We use the KY warming gel. Gets me fired up quick.
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i didnt know that lubes cause yeastie beasties!!!!!!! OHHHHH!!!! i just went to my doctor for my yearly and she told me i had a yeast problem!!! now i know why!! thanks!!!
anyways...im the opposite...i cant stay dry...when me and hubby start kissing i get wet...but if im alone trying to pleasure myself it doesnt work..i just cant get wet..so thats when i use the lube
the best lube ive found was by I.D. its called I.D. Millenium..its so soft and silky..i kinda wish they made that in a lotion my skin would feel sooo good and soft hahaha
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I didn't have any luck with the KY warming gel, that's the one that I feel sticky with. Well I hope to find something soon. Has anyone tried taking pills, they sell stuff I saw some stuff on drugstore.com
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I also hate the sticky feeling lube. me and H2B have tried everything under the sun and the only one that I have found that dont feel sticky and really, really works is "WET", thats the actual brand and name of it, it is water base so that the stickyness isnt there and also no fear of infection it is totally safe. It comes in pump form use as many as you like but one pretty much one pump will get you on your way, lol!
You should be able to find "WET" at your local Adult Book store they carry it at both locations I go to, Good luck! (<---Little riddle to cheer up your day) LOL
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