what if i never get pg again?

desperate23 · 04-14-2006, 04:43 AM

Its been about 6 months since my mc and it took us 4 yrs to get that far. Im so afraid it wont happen again.
Did anyone have less cm after thier mc? Or cycles were different?
Please help!
Thanks Tammy

kwannabee · 04-14-2006, 06:04 AM

i just wanted to wish you well and reassure you that all you can do is keep hoping...i know its hard and its emotionally exhausting...just take one day at a time...what i WONT say is 'if its meant to be it will happen' i always knew people meant well when they said that...but it drove me crazy

But you're not alone...alot of us have been where you are and have wondered the same thing...

so good luck to you and i wish you the best...

nourania · 04-14-2006, 06:09 AM

Tammy...I am so sorry that you are going through this..... I know it is sooo hard...It has been 23 months since my m/c...and I have not gotten pregnant since..I am still trying and am not giving up!! I won't say 'it will happen' because I hate when people say that to me....I just want to give you a ((((((((HUGE HUG))))))))..you are not alone....
GOOD LUCK!!!!
-rani

enits · 04-14-2006, 07:23 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss.

First of all, try not to think of the "what ifs." It'll drive you nuts! Instead, think of ways to enhance your chances of becoming pregnant. Keep on hoping for positive instances in your life -- visualize good experiences! I understand your fears, I think all of us here on this board do.

Are you seeing a doctor to help you?

desperate23 · 04-14-2006, 09:45 PM

You people are so wonderful

I am sorry that we all have at least one thing in common. I wish you all the absolute best.
Tammy

Phoenix Rising ^^^ · 04-16-2006, 12:17 AM

Tammy,
We have ALL felt that way. All, I can say is, don't give up on what you want!

(((((HUGS))))

saluki_fan · 04-16-2006, 05:38 AM

It's so hard to lose something that you worked so hard for, and wonder if you'll ever get that reward again.

I agree with Gina - don't give up! We are all cheering for you.

packerfan · 04-17-2006, 05:24 AM

IT took me a year and a half to get PG. I m/c that PG and it took 7 months to get PG again, so don't give up hope, next month could be your month.

As far as CM, are you taking Robutussin (sp?). I firmly believe you need to have adequate CM to carry the sperm to where they need to be.

((HUGS))

Daziepup · 04-18-2006, 04:22 AM

Things change in your body after a m/c or birth. It can take you body a while to recover and cycles to get right again. Your cycle may change all together. Everyone is different. If you are concerned call your doctor and see what he/she has to say.

I m/c 4 years ago. My pain is still as real as it ever was. I have not gotten pregnant again. I still have hope. I always will... I wish you hope and luck and offer you a shoulder to lean and cry on if needed.

sugarbug · 04-18-2006, 04:56 PM

It took me 3.5 years to get pregnant, and then I m/c. 8 months later I got pregnant again- naturally. He's now 1.5. Keep your chin up! ((hugs)) As far as the cm- the tussin is a good idea. Good luck ~*~*~*~*~

Bug

VivC · 04-19-2006, 06:45 PM

I don't have any real advice. But my cycles were totally wacky after I lost Rivi.

Viv

twinkle317 · 04-19-2006, 07:17 PM

Tammy I'm sorry to hear about your loss. It's been 4 months since my m/c and my cycles have been a little off. I know how you feel - I wanted to wish you the best. Don't give up.

Roxanne · 04-19-2006, 07:37 PM

Tammy I'm so sorry that you're going through this.

I've felt that way too. I miscarried last January. My periods were messed up for nearly a year after that.