My spouse and I are having a weird time and I believe that I am falling out of love with him. I have never been in love with anyone else in my life and we still dtd. My question is this: What does it feel like to dtd but you think you are falling out of love and at this point there is no lust with this person? Do you feel nothing? Something? I still want sex, so I know it is not hormonal.
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Well, I agree with the idea that love is not just a feeling but a choice, so to me falling out of love would be the lack of desire to keep the relationship going (especially if that means a lot of work).
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i dont know what it is like to fall out of love with someone. maybe you two are just going apart. maybe that is what falling out of love with someone is.
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How long have you and your DH been together... Usually its normal for a couple to have those feelings if you've been together awhile..Me and DH go through that about every 2 yrs but he does something and it makes me fall back in love with him. If your feeling like the relationship isnt working then talk to him maybe you two can go to counseling or decide to seperate . Whatever you do do something that makes you happy and if that means being apart then so be it.
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My grandma told me this before i married "Many times you both will fall in and out of love with each other, the trick is that you never have it happen at the same time." I think that there are times when we all feel this way to some degree or another but i know for me it usually passes.
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I think I've fallen out of love before. When I moved to Los Angeles away from my high school sweety, I was alittle depressed because I missed him. We talked on the phone alot and everything. The distance made us grow apart. We just recently started to see eachother more and the feelings I had when I first moved away are very faint. We still have feelings for eachother but they aren't strong anymore.
I agree with the PP that love is feeling and choice. It's very normal to have dips in a relationship and still go on to have a long loving relationship. The key is to hang on and renew your relationship. There is a book called Love For A Lifetime that I highly recommend. It has a step by step proceedure for regaining intimacy that goes far beyond just sexual attraction, though that is involved. It gives all kinds of tips that would be useful during such a period of marriage. You can get used copies on amazon for a penny. We got this as an engagment/wedding gift and it was one of the most useful things we have ever received!
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