Oh, non-stop bleeding bites! I had that off and on for a year one time. It was before I was diagnosed and I had to go on bcp for it to stop. When I was dx, I came off of bcp, started met and within 9 months I was cycling on my own. SO much better than it had been. I also became anemic because of all the bleeding, and that was contributing to it also (vicious cycle). Hope she's checking your levels for you.
I thought the risk of blood clots with bcp was from the estrogen in them, not the progesterone?? Interesting.
Anyway, all the choices have pros and cons. BCP is self-explanatory. The progesterone, like I said, I didn't realize it could contribute to blood clots. However, I have to say that I absolutely detest taking provera. How are your moods on it? You may want to take that into consideration, if you want to deal with the side effects for 3 months. It does sound like a good idea, though, to try to reset your system. It didn't work very well in my case, though. That's when I ended up on bcp. The D&C - sometimes a good 'clean out' is what's needed, but there are some things to consider with it also: it can be a bit painful, plus you're talking anesthesia. It can leave scar tissue which, depending on the severity of it, can lead to more problems. In my sister's case, hers left her lining so thin that it never really got thick again on its own and she ended up with a lot of constant spotting. She ended up on bcp to control it.
I guess in the long run, if you can handle the s/e of provera (or whatever she'll give you), maybe that might be the safest? And if that doesn't work, then you still have the other 2 to try. JMO. Good luck!

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