Lnamreep

Ladies-

It has taken me two years to get BFP's and both BFP's have had miscarriages (December at 5.5 weeks and March at 5 weeks).

I have had multiple lost testing and the test results came back fine. I do not have immunities to my husband ect.

Genetic testing came back from March mc and the twins saw no chromosones missing (girls)

The natural miscarriage in March did not totally leave my system (betas kept going up). I had a D&C done 1 week ago. While they were in there, they did a laproscopy and found........NOTHING WRONG.

Yes,I know that some would say that is great. However, why do I keep loosing these babies.

I feel defeated, because what more can I do. I have an enforced break of TTC until June, but I dont know what will happen in June. I cannot keep taking drugs praying for a BFP and then having my dream taken away from me!

SAD AND DEFEATED-Any ideas?

R0xyg4l

I'm sorry, I know how much it stinks to have a loss. I have two, one in October and one in March. I can't give you any answers. I may never know the answers to my own mystery (it was comforting to hear the MD say tho since you've had a 16 wk and 9 wk loss it could be two totally diff things... ). I was just telling another cyster something I saw about empirical care from a MD. Which is worth a shot. Essentially treating you like you have one of those conditions done that you've tested for and sometimes it can result in a healthy pg. I wish I could find that post but keep trying. It's hard and exhausting to have a m/c, but worth it in the end. Have they checked your progesterone and TSH?

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SheriKCMO

I am so sorry!! This story is way too common around here. Pcos is responsible for a lot of losses, and it breaks my heart. I hope that you can find ideas around the board but also the hope in some people's success stories that follow losses. Many cysters have had those empty arms, myself included, wondering if they would ever be filled, and lots of us have gotten our families after all. These tiny ones will be with you forever, regardless, but there is hope out there for the future. (((Hugs)))

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Metformin 1500mg, Yasmin, managing IR/pcos with lower carbs

First pregnancy ended at 23 weeks due to incompetent cervix.

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Mary Catherine will be in our hearts forever, November 28, 2003.
Second loss March 9, 2004 at five weeks

Third pregnancy, Cerclage at 13w

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Duncan 2/11/05, 9lb 3oz
Fourth pregnancy, Cerclage at 13w

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Ruby 2/27/06, 9lbs

sparkle4u

First I'd like to say that I am so sorry for your losses. I don't have any answers and am actually in a similar situation. I lost my first one in 11/08 at 10 weeks---the baby stopped developing at around 8 weeks but I didnt have any symptoms until 10 weeks. My most recent loss was 3/09 at 4-5 weeks--they called it a chemical pregnancy--and I am still having my beta levels checked while we wait for them to go down to zero (as of yesterday I was still at 17). My MD has elected to do some RPL testing but cannot start until my HCG levels are at zero. I am apprehensive about the testing, hoping we find out a reason but scared that something is wrong with me. This is just a difficult road to travel and I understand your feelings of sadness and defeat. I read the sucess stories and although they are positive and provide hope, they seem so far removed from me. It sometimes feels like it will just never happen for me.
I hope you find some answers; I hope we all find some answers!

tls1970nz

thinking of you and im so sorry for your losses (((HUGS)))

Hopeful09

Sorry for your loss. Wishing you a sticky bean soon!