Hello all; we are now needing to get our letters writen in order for the Social Worker to talk with us. I am not sure who to ask to write the letters for my husband. I am asking a previous boss because he is adopted and a woman who is my other grandmother; but isn't related to me by blood.
As for my husband he doesn't really have anyone like the not blood family member or someone that he knows, that knows him well, that was adopted.
We are doing a foster adoption, this is something that pulls at my heart strings!!
__________________ Renee (Nay) 27 & Jeff (DH) 28
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my "kids" 1 retriever Lucky; and 1 Goldendoodle Fozzie
Dx: PCOS March 13, 2000
Other Dx: PTSD, Depression/Anxiety, Fibro, Sleep Apnea, High BP
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I wrote a reference letter for a couple who was adopting and am not personally adopted. They were adopting their second child and we had spent a few months with them as parents in very close quarters just previously, so they figured we knew them well enough and would be able to comment on their current parenting style too.
The people that the references are coming from don't have to be adopted. My social worker just said it made a bigger impact. She actually just emailed me to see if I could talk DH into doing foster care and/or respite care and then do foster adopt. She said that other wise with their current case loads she would refer us to a colleague of her's that works in a private firm.
__________________ Renee (Nay) 27 & Jeff (DH) 28
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my "kids" 1 retriever Lucky; and 1 Goldendoodle Fozzie
Dx: PCOS March 13, 2000
Other Dx: PTSD, Depression/Anxiety, Fibro, Sleep Apnea, High BP
Rx:Metformin 1500mgER, Prenatal Vits, Provera 10day
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Bigger impact on who? Who is going to be reading it other than the case worker? That doesn't make sense? The bm's are not going to be reading it. That doesn't make a lot of sense.
Who did you ask? and What kind of adoption? 
