Why did god give me pcos? Ive prayed so hard for so long to be blessed with a child. What did I do so wrong to have this uncurrable curse placed on me? All I want is one, I vow to be the most happiest and greatful woman on this planner earth if I could be granted that one wish.
Just because you have pcos, doesn't mean you can't have children. Granted it may take a little work, but it's still possible. If you look around these boards you'll find hundreds of women, myself included, who were finally able to conceive.
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Believe me honey I ask the same thing everyday.. At 17 I started loosing my hair.. weight stored in a weriod unfemine way, my hormones are out of wack, now I have growth hormone deficiancy...
at 22 my entire life fell apart... I was never properly diagnosed until this year.. Everyday I prayed to God that he would turn back time and let me go back and manage my health since I was never aware of this...
No response NO SYMPATHY whatsoever.. I realized there is no God.. Science has explained evolution, we have explored space no heaven found.. I wish there was a magical sky daddy or mom that could take this all away.. But nada.. we're victims of Darwins survival of the fittest..
You should be thankful you have someone to make babies with it.. and there are treatments so YOU WILL! My looks and entire spirit is ruined
^^What makes you realize that there is no God? Where is it written that human beings won't go through struggles with health and fertility? Where is it written that God says He'll answer all of our prayers exactly the way we dictate they should be? I think the contrary, we are warned & prepared for these events in our lives, and provided with mechanisms to get through them. God has not broken His promise to you. If you choose to give up on Him, it has nothing to do with His existance.
Perhaps the proper diagnosis you finally received was one of God's answers? Or your stumbling upon Soulcysters? What about your ability to search the web and literature to learn proper nutrition? These are all steps towards gaining control of PCOS - isn't that what you've prayed for?
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^I'm newly agnostic, open to the possiblity of a higher power, but not entirely sure
What evidence do you have that God exists?
What makes me think there is no God? The extermination of 6 million jews, slavery, wars, illness... Somewhere in the world right now a child is getting raped and beaten, another is starving.. another child is born with cancer... what about the 400 civilians that got killed in Palestine for the last seven days, by the Isreali government?
I fully understand the concept of "free will" but what about medical issues we are born with? And really what kind of God would sit back, eat popcorn and allow all of this? Is God not just?
As far as my struggles go.. It's more than health and fertilty, I've lost everything in my life just at the age of 22, I've been open about my issues w. PCOS but I don't want to get into what's going on in my personal life..
As far as my diagnosis, it came six years too late.. I really haven't been able to change much, but I am working on it... Why is it when good things happen it's God, but bad things happen it's our own?
My diagnosis had nothing to do with God, after years of crying and watching my hair fall out and struggling with many other issues (I have more than just PCOS).. I did my own research, getting tested and still didn't know what was going on.. finally I FIGURED it out and told my doctor to test my hormones, adrenal gland, thyroid etc... that's how I was diagnosed.. medications didn't work.. I did my own research and came here..
Why is it God? What are you trying to say humans aren't capable of anything? I did my own research.. I found my own solution
No one said God has to answer my prayers exactly they I want them or that life should be easy.. but it shouldn't be this difficult either. Everyone has their limit, I'm strong person and I finally broke down when my life fell apart... This is too much pain for me to endure.. Why does God put people on Earth just to suffer? what's the point? The victims of Hitler? Why allow so many innocent people to die? What did those kids do that were taken away from their parents and send to NAZI death camps? Stripped naked and shaved.. forced to work and get expiermented on by nazi doctors.. It's SICK.. It's inhumane... If there is in fact a God why should I believe in such a cruel one? That has the power to stop all of this, but doesn't?
What about Heaven? Where is it? Angels are depicted in pictures with clouds.. Planes have already flew through the sky.... no Angels.. Astronauts went into space.. NO HEAVEN, NO GOD.. JUST A SOLAR SYSTEM WITH PLANETS... Earth is just a small part of the Universe.. Where is God? Is he watching over Mars now lol?
You can belive whatever you want.. In fact I didn't become a complete agnostic until recently.. I tried different religons, attempted to reach out to God many times.. It took me a long time to get to this point.. I never gave up on God even after being molested, health issues, personal tragedy etc... But now after doing much research, I finally have and chose not to have some kind of delusional fantasy that there is some magical sky daddy that is looking out for me and the entire universe.. When I hit rock bottom, no one was there to help me other than myself...
Sorry I know this came out a little incoherent (I'm doing a number of things at once) but it's the events in my life and science that have led me arrive to this conclusion..
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First, to the original poster, honey, I ask that question every day, but I have also realized that there will come a point in your life when although it hurts and sometimes you are angry, you will move from self pity and become proactive. Why did God give you this uncurable and seemingly curse... because he knew you could handle it! You are much stronger than you know... If you need a shoulder or somoene to talk to, lean on your cysters... We all know how hard it is...
To Goddess, I will not argue or debate the isssue of whether God exist with you, but I do sense that you are very hurt over what has happened in your life... even before PCOS... As I stated before (and this is not a belief, but what I know) sometimes, we are given situations to deal with because we have the strength to endure them... God does care about what you're going through... I read each line of your post and could give you an answer to each line, but that's not what this is about... it's about your own heart's condition and the hurt you feel... I can sense, you too have asked the question, "why?" to God. I am praying sincerley for you - that you will be healed from the hurts of your past and that you will once again know what it feels like to be loved by the almighty God and comforted in his presence.... Don't take this as a debate, but as a prayer of care and concern. If you ever need someone to reach out to... I will be here!
To the both of you... be encouraged! Know that you are not on your own and you are stronger than you know!
I didn't realize you are an 'agnostic.' Based on your other thread, I thought you were sincerely looking to make peace with God, and this is why I replied to you again here. I'm not looking to debate with you over it.
But I will say that I believe God is Just, but this world is not. Everyone on this board can write a post to rival yours (and you have gone through a lot, I am sorry for that). It is a sad and sorrowful reality. Human beings are capable of great things though, and it's when you make that effort to help yourself that I believe God helps you. You reach out a hand, He reaches out an arm's worth...
Similarly to you, I don't understand what the point of living on this Earth would be if we didn't have free will, if we didn't make mistakes, if we didn't commit sin. I don't know why God would have put Adam & Eve here to begin with, if things were supposed to just remain the way they were in Heaven. I believe we are here to worship God, but that Satan also lives here to lead us astray.
Best wishes on your struggles, and I hope you can turn things around for yourself and start to have hope for your life again.
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First, to the original poster, honey, I ask that question every day, but I have also realized that there will come a point in your life when although it hurts and sometimes you are angry, you will move from self pity and become proactive. Why did God give you this uncurable and seemingly curse... because he knew you could handle it! You are much stronger than you know... If you need a shoulder or somoene to talk to, lean on your cysters... We all know how hard it is...
To Goddess, I will not argue or debate the isssue of whether God exist with you, but I do sense that you are very hurt over what has happened in your life... even before PCOS... As I stated before (and this is not a belief, but what I know) sometimes, we are given situations to deal with because we have the strength to endure them... God does care about what you're going through... I read each line of your post and could give you an answer to each line, but that's not what this is about... it's about your own heart's condition and the hurt you feel... I can sense, you too have asked the question, "why?" to God. I am praying sincerley for you - that you will be healed from the hurts of your past and that you will once again know what it feels like to be loved by the almighty God and comforted in his presence.... Don't take this as a debate, but as a prayer of care and concern. If you ever need someone to reach out to... I will be here!
To the both of you... be encouraged! Know that you are not on your own and you are stronger than you know!
Well thank you! what a sweet message...
Diamond -- It was never my intention to debate you, I responded to your post (sorry if it came out harsh or as a rant lol). And yes I was sincerely "looking to make peace with God".. Like I stated in the previous post.. I'm newly agnostic.. I'm begining to question whether or not God is real.. Honestly I don't want to be questioning, I sincerely would like to believe in God.. but the events in my life and science are just pointing me to a different direction. Maybe I'll come back and believe (I really hope so) but right now I don't feel the like God's in my life...
Anyways thanks for the well wishes.. All the best!
The Lord gives us struggles for many reasons. He has a reason for everything, even if we cannot understand his reasons at this moment. I've been sick since I was 14. I spent my entire high school life missing out on all of the fun because I always felt too sick to do much more than the basics. At 21 years old, I am still sick 100% of the time, and still struggling to understand why, but the difference is that now I know that God has a purpose for me, and a purpose for my illness.
He has a purpose for what you are going through, also. It isn't clear to you yet, but He does. Stay strong and turn to Him in times of doubt. He will not fail you.
i would just like to say that i am a 20 year old i was diagnosed with pcos when i was 13 i have a server case my mom took me to all my doc appts from the time i was 13 to 19 she startd taking me to the re well on july 7 2008 no one could find my mom i went to her house and found her murderd in the garage under some trash bags her husband of 4 days killed her and even though all the terrble things that was going on GOD has been with all of our family the whole time and he is helping me with everything but i guess my point is that the hardest time of my life when i lost my mother she was my best friend it made me so much closer to god and he let me lean on him i could have been mad at him for all of this bubt i am not i am just thankful i had him with me the whole time i have also been trying to get preg for over 2 years and have never had bfp but i still have faith that one day i will be holding my baby in my arms so please just give god another chance he will not let you down
i would just like to say that i am a 20 year old i was diagnosed with pcos when i was 13 i have a server case my mom took me to all my doc appts from the time i was 13 to 19 she startd taking me to the re well on july 7 2008 no one could find my mom i went to her house and found her murderd in the garage under some trash bags her husband of 4 days killed her and even though all the terrble things that was going on GOD has been with all of our family the whole time and he is helping me with everything but i guess my point is that the hardest time of my life when i lost my mother she was my best friend it made me so much closer to god and he let me lean on him i could have been mad at him for all of this bubt i am not i am just thankful i had him with me the whole time i have also been trying to get preg for over 2 years and have never had bfp but i still have faith that one day i will be holding my baby in my arms so please just give god another chance he will not let you down[/quote]
God has always stated that you will have trials in life. It is how we work through those trials is where our true faith lies. I have a two testimonies from this year that God has worked in my life and one of them is by finally finding a diagnosis with my problems (PCOS). BabyMomma_23, don't look at this as God giving this to you, look at it as God has given the doctors the means of finding an answer to your problems/questions. I myself was very worried about not being able to have a baby, but I look at it in the way that even if I have to go through other means, God will create the way for my husband and I. God will guide us. In the beginning, God created the Heavens and the Earth. He created you and He created myself. He gave us life in our mother's wombs. Hang in there BabyMomma_23, we will all work through this together!
God has not given you PCOS. It is not a punishment. It is a trial that He knows you can overcome, else He wouldn't have allowed it to happen. He only gives you what he knows you can handle. Read the book of Job, I think there are some phrases that explain this much better.
He is always with you. He listens. You know what you have. He has given you free will and wants you to use it! Be pro-active. You are not cursed or being punished. You are on a journey, that's all.
He wants you to have babies too. Pro-creation is beautiful. But that doesn't mean He is going to be disappointed in you if it doesn't happen. But you must have faith in God and nature that it will happen. Possibly when you're least expecting it to. Don't give up on life or Him xx
i would just like to say that i am a 20 year old i was diagnosed with pcos when i was 13 i have a server case my mom took me to all my doc appts from the time i was 13 to 19 she startd taking me to the re well on july 7 2008 no one could find my mom i went to her house and found her murderd in the garage under some trash bags her husband of 4 days killed her and even though all the terrble things that was going on GOD has been with all of our family the whole time and he is helping me with everything but i guess my point is that the hardest time of my life when i lost my mother she was my best friend it made me so much closer to god and he let me lean on him i could have been mad at him for all of this bubt i am not i am just thankful i had him with me the whole time i have also been trying to get preg for over 2 years and have never had bfp but i still have faith that one day i will be holding my baby in my arms so please just give god another chance he will not let you down
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Chasity -
Thank you for sharing that... I believe you have an awesome testimony that will inspire many others to believe God inspite of the terrible situations they encounter... I am so sorry that you had to endure this as a young child... especially at that tender age of 13 when you are young enough to be so vulnerable and trusting, but old enough to understand murder and abuse... Your perserverance through live is going to show great reward for you in the future!
Like you, in two years, I have NEVER gotten a BFP, but I am still believing to see... I believe that it is completely possible... With God, ALL things are possible!
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God has not given you PCOS. It is not a punishment. It is a trial that He knows you can overcome, else He wouldn't have allowed it to happen. He only gives you what he knows you can handle. He is always with you. He listens. You know what you have. He has given you free will and wants you to use it! Be pro-active. You are not cursed or being punished. You are on a journey, that's all.
He wants you to have babies too. But you must have faith in God and nature that it will happen. Possibly when you're least expecting it to. Don't give up on life or Him xx
Ummm... I don't know what to say to this other than... AMEN!!!!
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I meant to say in my earlier post how sorry I am for what you have been through. Not only that though, I wanted to say how pleased I am that you're closer to God.
I have been through constant rough times for as long as I can remember, both socially and with my health. It is when I have been at my darkest and most desperate I have heard a voice and felt a touch on my shoulder. I believe God has sent me a guardian angel, or is trying to let me know that I am not alone. You need to allow God and angels into your life to help you. Angels like to be asked for help. Ask for strength, support, love, light, a bfp...anything you need help with. They will protect you because they do the little jobs for God.
I used to think it was crap. But I can't anymore. I have experienced incredible things when I have been my most frightened, worried, sick...always something wanting to help me. Open you eyes and your heart. He is there.
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i would just like to say that i am a 20 year old i was diagnosed with pcos when i was 13 i have a server case my mom took me to all my doc appts from the time i was 13 to 19 she startd taking me to the re well on july 7 2008 no one could find my mom i went to her house and found her murderd in the garage under some trash bags her husband of 4 days killed her and even though all the terrble things that was going on GOD has been with all of our family the whole time and he is helping me with everything but i guess my point is that the hardest time of my life when i lost my mother she was my best friend it made me so much closer to god and he let me lean on him i could have been mad at him for all of this bubt i am not i am just thankful i had him with me the whole time i have also been trying to get preg for over 2 years and have never had bfp but i still have faith that one day i will be holding my baby in my arms so please just give god another chance he will not let you down[/quote]
