Hi Ornah and Carrie,
I'm sorry the responses seem to be coming slow. I can't give much advice regarding herbs, but I can tell you a little bit about my experience with alternative medicine.
I was dx with PCOS after having had only one AF in 6 months of being off BCPs. My gyno sent me for a hormonal panel and u/s. I came back classic (3:1 LH/FSH ration, elevated free Testosterone and cysts on my ovaries), lucky for me my doc thought to look, because I'm a thin cyster. Anyway doc wanted to put me on one round of Clomid and then on to injectibles.
That really scared me, because I had just read 'Taking Charge of Your Fertility' and didn't want to try drastic measures until I had tried a simpler way.
I started with Licorice Root and Dong Quai, which did nothing for me. I had someone bring me Vitex from the USA (it's not available in Israel), also did nothing for me. Maybe the combo was wrong, and maybe I didn't try long enough. I really wanted to try False Unicorn Root, but again, it is not available in Israel.
Well, on to accupuncture I went. I went once a week and my healer gave me perscriptions for Chinese herbal remedies. I tried at least 3 or 4 until he found the one that worked. I also started low carbing (4 days after the change in my remedy). Two weeks later, while getting over the flu, I couldn't understand why my temps weren't going down to normal. They stayed at 36.7, my normal temps were around 36.3 (now I know what is normal for pre O and what is normal for post O

).
I now O every cycle, but late, so I am going to try soy to make me O earlier. I recently did a follow up hormonal panel and all my levels came back normal

.
These days I low carb, take my Chinese herbal remedy, do Yoga once a week and exercise at least an addtional two.
I am now waiting for DH to get over his problems and then hopefully we'll get pg (in our own bed!) and if not, it's on to IUI or IVF.
I know this has been long winded, but I need to add a word of advice. Most of the times alternative remedies are not a quick fix. It took me 6 months to start seeing results and nearlly a year to get where I am.
I wish you good luck on your journey, and hope neither of you will need a doc to get pg.
HTH Oshrat